Making friends

Hi. I really struggle to make friends and don’t like messaging my connections first as I feel like I’m bothering them. I have a 13 month old baby girl who is my best friend as I basically have none. I’m taking a leap of faith here by posting to see if anyone local wants to chat and eventually meet up and see if I friendship blooms

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Hi :) I have a 14 months old daughter too and I also don’t really have many mum friends, or just friends in general for that matter. I live in Seaford, so not far from you ☺️

Hey 👋 I live in seaford too have 2 little girls oldest 16 months and younger nearly a month old always jn eastbourne as family there and I work there

I also struggled to make any mum friends or again have any non mum friends lol happy to meet up

Hi jade im from stone cross i have a 12 month old boy and a 1 month old little girl I also struggled to make mum friends until a few weeks ago now ive met a couple of girls on here we chatted a little first now we have a whats app group set and meet up at kiddicity in langney Even spoken about doing a few days out with the kids soon. Message me if you fancy joining us

Hi Jade, I have a 6 month old and currently on maternity leave. I find it really hard to connect or talk to others and I have bee quite isolated since moving to Eastbourne a few years ago and more so since having my daughter.

Always up for a coffee meet up or walk in the park / along the sea front, or just be a space to talk if you need it. Do message me if you want at any point but absolutely no pressure 😊

Hey I have a 12 year old , 2 year old and 1 year old , always up for meeting up 🙂

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