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My husbands parents bought a resort in hill station with the money he has been sending. So they say it’s my husbands and they are managing it for now for him since he is in US. When we went to vacation in India they took us ter. The resort was in very bad shape and looks like my in-laws have appointed someone else to run it and my in-laws were saying that the person is not gud. Then they stayed in one room and we stayed in another room in the resort. The room was very dirty and the bathroom looked very bad I told my husband I am not stepping inside the bathroom. I asked if we can go to another hotel and he said no and that this is our resort. My daughter was feeling icky as well and initially said she won’t pee and use the potty. It took some time to convince her and go somehow we managed to get ready and we came down to car. While we were waiting my husband was mentioning tat we got late because of our daughter refusing to use the bathroom and all tat. My mother in law looked at my 5 year old daughter and said you should learn to clean toilet. While I agree that one should learn how to clean saying it to a 5 year old seemed too much. And I don’t blame my daughter for being icked because it was very bad. I was just taken aback when my mother in law and said tat. What should I have said her. I have been telling my husband that next time please get another hotel. And he keeps saying but it’s our resort. Is tat so is it wrong to stay at another hotel.

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SAHM Allowance

For my SAHM, does your partner give you money weekly/ monthly? What’s your situation like? I just came across a post that said a SAHM has been asking her husband for $50/month and he denies it; I was so shocked.

I can’t be the only one who thinks this is weird?!?

It irks the hell out of me when my husband doesn’t answer my calls because he’s on the phone with his sister. Or he’ll hang up with me because his sister is calling! Also, why is she calling 10 times a day???

Granted- I call my own sister 10 times a day but very rarely I’ll ever call my own brother.

…but that’s not the weirdest part. He has his sister saved as “my princess” on his phone! I’d get it if it’s his litter sister who’s 10 or something. But his sister is pushing forty!

Grandparents watching your child is on your time not theirs

For example:
You: we have plans this day can you watch xyz?
Them: no but I can the next day
You: that doesn’t work because the plans are this day nevermind

Give me your opinion!

Found out I was pregnant same week of my grandmother passing.
But the pregancy i haven't announced as only 5 weeks and had a miscarriage in January
But regarding my grandmother passing *my partner at the time*
Was announcing her death to people that ain't related and tried inviting them to funreal which funreal plans was left with a family member and she wanted only family.
I did call him out for it as grandchildren and great grandchildren was still to find out on her passing he didn't take any responsibility on what his just created he just stated nothing to do with.
Nothing to do with you but was disrespectful enough to try go against her wishes .
One you ain't family either
Two is private information which shouldn't be seen as gossip
And three he shouldn't then of started calling me every name under sun .
His stated I'm a disgrace when his one crossed a boundary.
His gone on to say baby I'm currently pregant with ain't his .
Which let me confirm I had a miscarriage with this lad in January and was forced to go through that alone until the very last minute until I contacted someone close to him.
What would anyone do this situation because I haven't spoken or seen him since crossing boundaries and also I don't wanna give someone access that thinks it's okay to treat a pregnant woman like a door stop.
Like is the type of person I really wanna have a baby with ?
Is the type of behaviour I wanna be putting up with early stages of pregnancy.
Is this the type of person I wanna be sharing any information with since he finds it all gossip.
Someone give me some advice on what they would do in this situation?