Should I even engage with this lady?

I started to ask if ladies wanted to be friends on Threads and this girl responds to the to connect with me but she posts on her own page that she's seeking friends (plus a list of characteristics and hobbies in common shes lookkng for) and then said no kids. I thought that was so weird

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Well she means like she wants to talk about lots of things except kids 😅 I can understand, kids don't define who you are as a person 🥰

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Well to be fair everyone is entitled to a child free life not a child free world. So she's allowed to want friends who don't have children. For me that's how I know I won't get along with someone. I love kids even before I had them,I wouldn't mind kids hanging out while I see my friend. So I appreciate when someone is upfront about it so I dont waste my time trying to make a friend who isn't gonna be a real friend.
So personally I wouldn't reach out to that person.

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Just ask her?

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True. But maybe she just missed that you had kids

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