Should I even engage with this lady?

I started to ask if ladies wanted to be friends on Threads and this girl responds to the to connect with me but she posts on her own page that she's seeking friends (plus a list of characteristics and hobbies in common shes lookkng for) and then said no kids. I thought that was so weird

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Well she means like she wants to talk about lots of things except kids 😅 I can understand, kids don't define who you are as a person 🥰

Well to be fair everyone is entitled to a child free life not a child free world. So she's allowed to want friends who don't have children. For me that's how I know I won't get along with someone. I love kids even before I had them,I wouldn't mind kids hanging out while I see my friend. So I appreciate when someone is upfront about it so I dont waste my time trying to make a friend who isn't gonna be a real friend.
So personally I wouldn't reach out to that person.

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Friends??

Heyy!! My name is Marie I’m 24 and I’m a ftm and sahm to a 5 month old baby boy🩵. I find it really hard to make/keep friends 😅. Honestly I’m kinda inconsistent, like we could text for days and suddenly I stop texting for a while (hence why it’s hard to keep friends) but I will always be there and answer whenever you text!! I’m from MA but I’m down to lone distance friendships🫶🏽

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Really embarrassing!
I'm a first time mummy at 35, she's 16 month and everytime I sneeze or cough I lose control of my bladder and pee a little 😔, I've had countless utis since having her aswell! Will it get better? Or do I need to invest in panty liners? 😆

Skipping 6 week PP check up

Has anyone ever just skipped out on their 6 week pp check up?😭 I know this is stupid but I'm just curious. This is my 2nd baby, vaginal birth, no complications, 2nd degree tear, but I feel great! Physically and emotionally. I have no pain at all, no more bleeding, and I'm almost 100% sure my stitches are dissolved. My ob/gyn is 30 min away from me, and I will have to take both my toddler and newborn with me when I go cause my partner will be at work and I don't want to spend more money on a nanny. And I feel like it's gonna be a quick appointment since I have no problems and I just feel like it'll be a waste of time. Like I know I should get checked out just to be safe but I just feel so good and completely back to normal I really don't want to😭

Sex is better with a socialist

MAGA women you're being conned

Does anyone else feel lonely sometimes in motherhood?

I love my baby more than anything, but there are moments where I realize I’ve never really had a “best friend”… and becoming a mom kind of makes that feeling louder.
I have sisters and I’m grateful for them, but it’s not the same as having that one person you can text all day, vent to, or just feel fully understood by.
Some days it feels like I’m doing everything right as a mom, but still missing that connection for me.

Im bored

My husband is working out of town and I have no family in the city I live in! . I'd love to start a mini group chat because (im also a introvert) and struggle sometimes with small talk to keep. So maybe it would be easier?. I like anime & books. Maybe we watch something or read something together? 😅 idk