I’m in a straight relationship but I miss sex with women

I have been in and out of straight and lesbian relationships for years. Although I love my partner and can see a future with him I just don’t really get in the mood for him in that way and miss how women would make me feel during intercourse

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My husband is the only man I'm attracted to. Thankfully our sex life is amazing. We do have threesomes when we can though. I'm not really sure what to suggest. Have you spoken to your partner about all this? Is there anything they can do to improve things for you?

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I wasn't suggesting you invite someone else into the relationship, it definitely isn't something that works for everyone.
I'd say it's worth a conversation or 2 with him, just so you know you've given him a chance.
I personally couldn't be with someone I'm not sexually compatible with, especially now after I previously spent a couple of years in an awful relationship.
I think it comes down to what you view as being important. To me a good relationship has to involve being sexually compatible and having an amazing sex life, that's not something I'm willing to compromise on any more. Like you say the relationships with women and men can't be compared, but whoever you're with should make you happy in every possible way

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Talk to him about it. I’ve been open with my sexuality with him but it wasn’t til this past year we deep dived into it. He makes an effort to make sure I feel comfortable see where why I prefer women all of that. Even has said he doesn’t mind me dating women and doesn’t want to hold me back. He’s the only man I want, grew up being told men don’t like that. But I do appreciate a woman. So talk to him who knows he might understand and be open to you being with women

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