SIL Overstepping Boundaries

My man’s sister came over about a week ago and didn’t ask me, instead just “told” my man that she was outside. She came with makeup and perfume on and carried my baby. While carrying him, she said “My baby” which gave me the biggest ick.

After she left, he smelled like his perfume - I HATED it. Actually made me mad. She never checked on me when I was pregnant and we don’t really have a relationship.

How do I tactfully tell her in the future if she wants to come over to see the baby to actually tell ME in advance and how do I tell her if she’s wearing perfume she can’t hold the baby because I don’t want him smelling like perfume (I am currently steering clear of perfume because of how sensitive baby skin is.)

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MIL came over on sunday to help with childcare, I'm heavily pregnant so she said why don't you go for a nap while I'm here.
I had a 2 hr nap upstairs and during that time she fell asleep on the sofa for 1.5 hrs. I know because we have security cameras round the house which i looked at later on after she'd gone.
My daughter slept for 30 mins on her, on the arm of the sofa and then the rest of the time she was left with the TV on.
I'm really annoyed because we have a wooden floor, a coffee table that she tries to climb on, she had hair ties which she often pulls out and tries to chew therefore a choking risk.
She's 20 months old.
Am I over reacting?
The worst thing is when I came downstairs after my nap, she 'she's not had much sleep only about 10 minutes'. But idk how she'd know that because my daughter woke up ages before she did.

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