Looking for a bestie

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Looking for a bestieee!

I am a first time mom, I don’t really have a lot of friends, especially friends who are pregnant or already have kids so it’s really hard to connect with people. I would love to get to know people and have someone to be able to talk with and connect with! I can’t see waves 😭

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Besties!!!

Looking for friends that are consistent! I’m looking for friends to text, ft, etc. I just had my first baby he’s 8 months old and I have a 5yr old step daughter. I’m from KY I have lots of animals I love growing fruits & veggies and I make my own bread! 😂 message me!

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Serious Advice - Debt related

Hi all,

I haven’t really got anyone to discuss with so I wanted some advice.

I’m going to be starting a debt management plan with Stepchange as since having the baby I’ve been unable to earn enough money to make a difference in my credit cards - I’m essentially paying nothing with the interest being added etc.

Anyway, with the proposed solution, after paying ALL my necessities, and the debt plan back I’ll be left with £170 disposable.

Does that sound reasonable? Or should I lower my debt plan, to have more money to put away now, and then increase the amount in a couple years? My car finance is due to end in 3 years, so I’ll be able to basically move that money over to the debt solution and clear it quicker.

What do people think the best solution would be to do?

Increase my disposable ££ and lower my debt solution, or £170 be okay? (It may be more if I don’t spend as much as anticipated during the month)

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How’s everyone handling going back to work?

Do you think it’s been easier to get back into a routine? Or is mom guilt killing you?

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Lonely

Hi I’m a stay at home mum to my 2 year old girlie. I love it although it is challenging at times. I’ve lost all my friends I only had really two close friends and they no longer keep in touch which is hard as I thought they would. I’m so lonely. Does anyone else feel this way?

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You can't drive and live rurally. At what point in pregnancy would you not want hubby going away overnight?

My husband has to do overnights with work sometimes to London which is like an 7 hour train journey from our home. At what point of pregnancy would you start to feel uncomfortable with him going away/request he decline the trip? I can't drive and live 50 minutes away from the nearest hospital.

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