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Me and my husband are TTC. Sometimes after sex i have noticable drippage but other times, nothing noticeable at all but he says he finished inside. Usually aswell i notice more on the first fay of sex then little to none as it goes on if we had sex multiple days in a row. Im worrying , does that mean he didnt finish ? He says he did. I was wanting to ask, do you ladies always feel drippage? Or sometimes not? Im getting stressed out about it and a little disheartened x thanks so much

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Girl you say you have sex in multiple times at a day ,you are drying him out ,is completely normal

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It is normal for sperm to flow out after sex, the ones required to get you conceived are in already, you don’t need much sperm to get pregnant. I would say u relax and enjoy sex instead of worrying. I would also advise you space out to enable him recover and produce better healthy sperm too😊😊

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Sorry guys i meant multiple days in a row not multiple times a day haha! Ok so would you say that even though i dont have drippage, that the sperm is still going in there on those occasions? I Need to not spiral here haha

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Try putting a pillow underneath your bum after so it tilts your pelvis and stay there for a bit. It worked for us.

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The recommendation is every 2-3 days anyway to preserve sperm quality, so you guys could ease off a bit. Sperm survives 3-5 days so it isn't necessary to do it every day.

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Its okay. Not after we did this. I think I stayed there for about half an hour. It took us nearly 12 months to conceive and it worked doing this for a month.

I also recomend every other day instead of every day. Flo app gives you guidance as when ttc based on your predicted ovulation. We used it and tracked my temp for more accurate predictions

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I would assume your cervix may of been open at the time and the sperm went straight in!x

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I can 1 million percent tell if he’s finished or not.

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