Transfer day advice?

I am due to have my embryo transfer on Saturday 🤞🏼 does anyone have any tips or advice on what to do for the following few days? As it’s Easter weekend I’d usually be doing a lot of visiting family and friends but I’ve seen some people suggest just resting for a few days. Any experience about how you felt afterwards?

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I would just see how you feel, everyone feels different. Sometimes being around family helps and it's a distraction, it's just more about being careful physically like don't over exert yourself lifting heavy things or intense exercise etc. Wishing you best of luck with your transfer x

We got advised to keep doing business as usual. In fact got told to take a 30-60 min walk after and to keep mobile and moving generally. So I’d try and keep your plans

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