My baby barely sleeps + lots of gas & reflux - help! Any advice??

Hi, my baby’s 6 weeks old and in the past week at least he has barely been sleeping during the day, and not much at night either. Like maybe he has one nap that’s longer than 1 hour during the whole day and then mostly falls asleep while breastfeeding, and even if I wait for him to be in deep sleep once I move him to the bed/crib he doesn’t sleep in it more than 50 minutes, usually waking up very shortly after, like 5 or 10 minutes. At night he might sleep one or 2 longer stretches, if I’m lucky more than 2 hours, or about 1 hour and 30 minutes.
He struggles a lot with gas and that’s one common reason I believe he wakes up so much and I have been doing the exercises with his legs to help him when I see him struggling. He’s also got lots of reflux, sometimes it shoots out of his mouth and I get scared that maybe it’s not normal but at the same time he is gaining weight and does a good number of diapers per day.

I’m just really struggling tho as I barely get any sleep and can do any basic task, as he also doesn’t really like spending time with his dad and cries shortly after being with him.
I don’t know how long I can survive if things don’t get better.. I’ve been crying today as I also don’t have any family around us that can help and I wish I did, cause it’s really hard..

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We had the same experience with our baby weeks ago.
The reflux was not as bad as you’re describing but our pediatrician recommended to get on medication and I could see improvements. We used probiotics daily and I cut off dairy, altogether it’s a different baby that now only struggles with mainly gas, but he’s not crying or staying awake nearly as much as before.
Maybe doing some changes in your diet and possible reflux medication can help. So sorry for this, totally understand what you’re going through not having any help near us either!

you can contact the gp and try gaviscon see how that goes

1. Try to release the baby gas with some technic like climb mountain technique, you can see in tiktok or youtube and you know what something I talking about
2. If you baby have reflux try quick but frequently if you breastfeeding, and make sure the nipples is closer to baba mouth and nose don't give much gap so make the baba less reflux and gassy don't scare he can't breathe, he will breathe

Trust me I have same issue like yours mama, I'm scared but I tried this technique and my baba going better and better, you can do it , stay strong mama , you amazing 😍😍😍

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thoughts…

it’s my birthday in a few weeks and i’ve just found out my partner has bought me some lingerie… a few years ago this would have been fine, except i’ve just had 3 babies in 16 months (singleton and twins) and im currently 8 weeks postpartum… i currently hate how my body looks and know i won’t want to wear anything like it.
i’ve also recently discovered he is watching porn and pleasuring himself nearly every day… this isn’t something i would normally mind, but i think the frequency he is doing it makes me feel “icky”. it feels like he’s bought me the underwear to make me more appealing to him, without thinking about whether it would be something i’d want.

am i just being overly sensitive..?

Breastfeeding past 12 months

Guys im getting irritated. Ive been ebf now 8 months and my mum keeps saying in diff ways that “oh ur mummys gonna wean you off the breast soon” when shes 12 months.

And today shes telling me you cant breastfeed past 12 months.

And when i said i am going to and want to reach at least 2 years. Shes not saying “oh so u wanna breastfeed till 5”

Like what?

And then she’s saying because i still have baby weight i should go on manjaro. But obvs cant do that while breastfeeding.

So cant you still loose weight while breastfeeding past 12 months through diet and exercise?

Is anyone else’s family saying this about breastfeeding past 12 months? My mums just making me feel like im doing something wrong.

Is it not normal? I feel just annoyed because this is my baby and if im good with still breastfeeding her and if she still wants to breastfeed why should i stop.

How does breastfeeding past 12 months look like ?

Thank you! My rants over💗💗

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A little bit of a rant but any advice welcome.