Boyfriend wants to stop my progress?

Sorry, I hit no by accident when scrolling. I would’ve picked idk.

Is the gym in a dangerous area and he’s worried about your safety or what’s his reasoning

I don’t think you should quit the gym bc he doesn’t want you to go. Maybe he’s self conscious and thinks you’ll leave him for someone else?

He's being so controlling girl, this isn't okay. He broke up with you over this? But expects you to come running back and submit to what he says?

You dodged a bullet. Block his number.

I dunno i think that’s red flags already he’s already showing his ability to be controlling. I can go gym at any time I want if I want to, I’m a big girl I can take care of myself and esp if it’s somewhere/something I’ve already been doing a couple months already and it’s ingrained into my routine, who are you tell to tell me no? If it’s somewhere new/ and or a time I’m not usually out or the area is questionable, then his concern is valid. But if it’s not?? Then I’ll do me thanks.

Thats actually pretty considerate… given the circumstances. He could say “whatever.” It is pretty dangerous at night to be taking the train and going to a gym. I saw footage of a women who was attacked in the gym… luckily she was able to fight back. I seen women attacked on the train. The world we live in now is unpredictable and people are unstable and if he is adamant in warning u it may be Gods way of communicating with you that something may end up happening if u dont stop. My family members dont like me out late either. If you are going to go… maybe make sure you have mace and something to defend yourself… maybe text someone when u leave and make it there and back.

You mentioned in a comment that he's worried about you taking rhe train at night for safety reasons and I understand that. However, he was gonna have you take the train at night to his place? Thats just as dangerous (unless the gym is in an unsafe neighborhood).

Nah, you don’t put up with someone who threatens break ups when you do something they don’t agree with, communicate & compromise when applicable, but that’s so manipulative. Oh & it’s ok as long as you’re going to his place to have sex, but not ok just to do something that only you want to do, who does he think he is. 🙄

I clicked no by accident. It seems a bit controlling to me…

So are you guys together or no? Did you take him back after he broke up w you coz he feels “you’re not listening to his advice?” Coz that line will come up again later in another issue when you stand your ground again and don’t “listen to his advice” again. If you haven’t gotten back w him, great- leave it at that I think you dodged a bullet. And if you did I assume that that line will come up again and he’ll threaten it again and that bullet will do a Uturn lol. He sounds like a controlling hypocrite. He doesn’t want you go to to the gym but wants you to go to his house which frankly is further than this gym. 😵‍💫 Makes no sense.

Hun, he's terrible. He's manipulative.

I have been where you are. You're probably already trauma bonded. But girl... please....when you've wasted years with him and you have kids together and you feel trapped and hopeless.... you will WISH you left him, right now, in this moment.

You can choose a better future. You deserve a better future. Even if it means heartbreak now, please choose yourself.

there’s controlling then there’s being worried.