Partner watching porn

Jesus let the man watch porn it’s not like he’s cheating, you shouldn’t be having sex so early PP like at all girl
What the hellll

Your feelings are completely valid. Why people normalise lusting after other people is beyond me. If you’re ok with it then cool, but you’re clearly not. You’ve set a boundary and he’s ignored it, that’s called disrespect.

Don’t let random women on here tell you that you’re too sensitive because you don’t want your partner pleasuring himself over other women, especially after you’ve don’t the most amazing thing in the world, growing and birthing a child. Love and respect to me isn’t having an orgasm over another person… I made sure to set my boundary before anything got serious with my partner so that he had the choice to walk away if his boundaries were different… he wholeheartedly agreed with me, he knows that if he ever crossed it then I’d be gone. That’s my personal boundary and my choice and that’s our choice as a couple. As women, we are allowed to make these decisions, we have rights now. Don’t ever bow down or lower your standards because porn is more normalised nowadays.

Girls there’s just no need to argue. I appreciate both of yours opinions.
We had sex because I felt good enough to do that as well as I healed pretty quickly and well… it thought it’d be nice to get closer to each other again as we have our struggles and I’m still learning to trust this man or feel good around him, and yes before there’s any assumptions, we have decided to work it out for the kid as we could never really let go of each other.

He probably didn’t want you comparing yourself to the girls in the videos postpartum, I did that when I asked what my boyfriend had watched in the first few weeks after I gave birth too and I got really down by how they looked and he regretted showing me it afterwards. He was keeping himself occupied to stop him asking me for stuff postpartum cause they shouldn’t be asking! I imagine it could be harmless ❤️

I’m sorry, but I’m kind of the opposite. If you’re in a relationship, you don’t need to be watching other women in porn videos or on Instagram and stuff it’s disrespectful if you wanna look at other women and jack off to them then why are you in a relationship you’d rather look at women on your phone then go to the women right in front of you that’s just stupid and it makes the women in the relationship feel like their not good enough because of that people have made watching porn into something that’s apparently not a bad thing but it really is

I used to not have a problem with porn because I used to watch it too from time to time, but it got to a point where I can’t stand it anymore. Mainly because I’ve been clean for a long time and I’d like my partner to be too, but also because porn has fucked with his mind a lot and he kept going further as in dirty talking with girls, paying for them etc. I understand you completely. You indeed feel like you’re not good enough. I’m sorry you’re going through this 🫶🏼