Husband annoyed at our toddler for making a mess
My husband works and I’m a SAHM, and he was working from home today. Our 2-year-old was whinging and didn’t want to go out, even though I asked her so many times. So she was playing in the living room, and obviously it was a mess, toys all over the floor and some papers because she was drawing.
Then my husband came in and started telling our daughter off for whinging and telling her to be nice to me. He was also complaining about the living room being messy. Like, really?! We have a toddler! What is that attitude?!
I’m honestly so annoyed. And I was cooking while my toddler was playing, btw, and now I’m not even going to cook anymore.
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Hold on, he was telling her to be nice to you and you're mad at him? 😂
I think you've probably just had a tough day stuck inside with a whinging kid, I wouldn't brood on it too much.
I would be annoyed with him complaining about the mess too, especially if he saw me cooking. If that's her play area, then it's understandable for the area to have toys around. It's like thanks for telling her to be nice to me but you need to be nice to me too while I'm trying to multitask lol
I’d be annoyed too.
Thankfully, my husband used to complain but he was a stay at a home dad himself before so he understood now. Once of these days, we’re gonna miss the messy house 🥺
She's just a toddler!
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Husband annoyed at our toddler for making a mess
My husband works and I’m a SAHM, and he was working from home today. Our 2-year-old was whinging and didn’t want to go out, even though I asked her so many times. So she was playing in the living room, and obviously it was a mess, toys all over the floor and some papers because she was drawing.
Then my husband came in and started telling our daughter off for whinging and telling her to be nice to me. He was also complaining about the living room being messy. Like, really?! We have a toddler! What is that attitude?!
I’m honestly so annoyed. And I was cooking while my toddler was playing, btw, and now I’m not even going to cook anymore.
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