Am I overthinking ?

Hi mamas. Yesterday I took my 3 year old son to meet with a potential new babysitter at her in home daycare. I was looking for him to attend 3 days a week while I work.
When we arrived, my son was only 10 minutes into a nap, but he woke up fine and was very excited. He played with the other 2 children that were there, (ages 4 & 2 1/2), and checked out the fish tank with the other kids. The lady was really nice and we chatted about her schedule, day to day activities, etc. She said that my selected days were perfect, and that she’d send all paperwork and info to me to sign and give back to her. She does have an 8 mo old baby, and my son did bring him toys and tickled the baby for a moment, which she laughed at. Shortly after, another child hit the fish-tank with their hand, and then my child did the same a few times. I corrected him each time and redirected him. When it was time to leave, he was running from me and didn’t want go, (which I thought was a good sign) and I went to pick him up and he fell back and hit his head on her coffee table. Those were the only things that happened during the visit. Overall, I was happy with the environment and we said we’d see her Monday.
I get home last night and get this message… am I wrong to be put off by her working? Because I am not sure what made her come to that conclusion. Maybe im overthinking it.

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Am I crazy for wanting to do the drive again?

So Friday we drove 2 1/2 hours away to spend the weekend away with my parents. Came back yesterday and the fridge and freezer had been off the whole weekend so that really stressed me out as we did a big shop before we left (even though I was adamant I didn’t want to 😒) anyway the kids are WILD today. I have a 1 and 3 year old and they just have not stopped. The house is just a mess with our bags,my partner put a food bag on the kitchen counter which leaked oil EVERYWHERE. Just little things adding up and I’m itching to get out the house. Where we live there’s nothing here for kids so now I’m debating getting us in the car and driving 2 hours away to see my mum and nan 😅 I literally don’t know what to do with myself,my partners on night shifts so he’s obviously asleep in the day and we don’t see him at night. Just need someone to tell me if I’m being crazy for wanting to do the drive

Husband decides to vent??

So sitting together while the little one is sleeping. We are just chilling he’s playing a video game which is fine with me I play them too! I’m catching up with a friends who are having a baby soon. They are having trouble financially and seem happy but might be stressed about the baby coming but haven’t said much on way or another. I’m talking to my husband about them and what’s going on, this is nothing new when I’m talking to friends.

He freaks out on me says we don’t do things together we don’t talk about fun things anymore, how I’m to busy with the baby and going to back to school full time, and how that’s all I talk about, we don’t just cuddle (I don’t have to stick my dick in you). how he tries to “help” watch the baby so I can do fun things, so I can be how I was before the baby.

What do i do with that? I’m at mom I take care of a toddler full time, i might get 1 day a month for 2 hours my mother in law might watch the toddler so I can study deeply. We don’t have a nanny or house cleaners I do all household chores if not they don’t get done! I know this for a fact because my toddler get sick for 4 days so I couldn’t do any cleaning or washing clothes, not once did he pick up. Other wise I’m studying at night and going to class 3 nights a week. I’m also trying to get a start up off the ground so I can make money for our family and be there for my family on my own schedule.

What do I do with that kind of “blow up” from him???

Am I a drama queen?

8-month pregnant, I stay at home and my husband works in a demanding field. He literally spend weekends on the couch, on his phone. Whines when we have to go out for errands, throw the bin away, or set some things for the baby. He doesn’t help me at home whatsoever. I feel like he’s totally uninvested and this breaks my heart. We have no sexy time. No romantic moments. When I’m getting too mad or complaining, he says that I just want to vent to annoy him.
I really don’t see myself like this in the future… HELP 😔

How do I make him realize??

I’m pregnant for the first time I just turned 19 today actually, and I’m still with dad, we’ve been together since freshmen year of high school but it’s been ALOT we have been through litterly everything you could think of to be honest, and we’re still here! Anyway, I’m pregnant now we weren’t trying at all but not really taking proper precautions and now we’re having a baby long story short but, I feel like he’s not taking this as serious as I am, I’ve worked with children and families since I was 16, and I’ve helped my mom raise my sister since she was born and she’s only 4 now almost 5, but him on the other hand, his dad passed when he was 12-13 mom got
Locked up since he was 13-14 and he’s been living with his grandparents ever since and there old school, they also don’t even know about this because that’s for him to tell not me, he just idk I really feel like he’s not taking it serious? he dosent even wanna tell anyone and I don’t really Either but at the end of the day who really Cares what they think. I’m scared he’ll just look at me as pregnant and that’s it, does that make sense?? I fear he’ll take no effort to research how I’m changing physically and mentally and I’m scared he’ll be here but not HERE. He’ll be here physically but not understanding or even try to mentally and emotionally. Like I’m just pregnant not Everything else that comes with it, and I want him to try this program called rookie dads and he just shot me down right away, I even tried saying it was for me or it was for baby why is it have to be an argument and still nothing! what do I do to show him like this is real life and you need to take initiative, I mean it’s only been about a week since weve been processing but still… does anyone know anything of what to do??

Meals for 6 month old

I started weaning my little one at 5 months. We started off with just 1 vegetable a day and gradually started to introduce another one in with it. Weaning has been going really well but I am now wanting to go from just vegetables to pureed meals. My baby will be 7 months this month. I just wondered did people make their own sauces for like curry and bolognaise, or did you buy jars. If you got jars what was the best ones to go for as I know I need to get low salt content. Thank you

Weaning

Is anyone struggling with this? My boy will be 9 months next week and he refuses to eat anything 😭 he has his milk but actually food he’s not interested, he throws away anything I give him and also locks his lips. I give him milk first and after 1h ish I give him food but is not working. Should I start giving solids before milk? Any advice would be much appreciated ❤️ xx