My BIL turns 40 in June, his wife messaged asking if we would be joining for the trip, but I cant becauae by then I'll be 36 weeks and do not want to risk travel. Husband declined as well. W
Well today BIL wife messaged my husband asking for sure he can't make it for like a day or two? And honestly I knew this was going to come up. He hasn't decided and we will be talking it over, but why does it make me mad that she would even ask again? I know if she were in my place she wouldn't have her husband travel across the US when she is that far along
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My BIL wanted my husband to travel from NY to FL near the end of my pregnancy to have a boys week with their dad & my husband flat out declined bc I was so close to giving birth & he refused to miss it for anything. It’s kind of selfish of her to even ask so close to your due date.

1000% have a right to be upset. Your child being born is more important than a 40 year birthday trip by a mile
Just thinking more and more about it, it's frustrating to think she'd ask because 1) he doesn't get paternity leave, it's pto 2) I'd be alone with our other kids