Have you ever feel lonley

Have you ever been in a situation you stay home alone with your baby you have a partner but he is a truck driver and gone during the week and comes home on weekends.. im so lonely and so depressed im sick of being a truck driver girlfriend. I dont like being alone it Fing sucks.. any advice would be appreciate thank you..

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he doesnt sleep at home?:(

Yes he is the baby daddy.. yes I knew he was a trucker

Being a blue collar wife/gf isnt easy nor is it for everyone, it takes a special person to hold on. I have been with my blue collar husband for over 10 years, and it's a sacrifice for us both. Do I wish he were home more often, yes of course, but his profession allows us the life we want for our kids. I get to be a sahm that also homeschools. I have to remember this is what I want despite it being lonely at times.

But because you knew his profession going in, you need to be understanding that this is his way of being financially responsible for himself, you and the baby. Speak to him again and see if there are other job opportunities of him trucking locally, but if there isn't try to be understanding. Its not easy finding another job that can pay someone with a cdl. Leave him messages and notes to know tou are thinking of him, because those are what they hold on to when away. Also start finding other moms to be around during the day.

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