Please no judgements..
I had my second baby 3 months ago and she was soooooo wanted. I love and adore her so much. I have an older child of 8yrs. I am an older mum I’m 37 almost. And I just feel like my life is over. I didn’t realise I would feel like this, maybe because I have already done the baby stuff and then I was kind of free again, and now I’m doing the baby stuff again.. and sometimes I’m so overwhelmed I feel like that’s it for me.. I don’t really have much support with the baby it’s just purely me day and night and I just want a break for a minute. I want to get dressed up and put on some makeup and have a cocktail and just socialise, is that bad of me? Am I a bad mom? I’m so torn with different emotions everyday it’s so hard.
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