Would you take a 12 week old baby to a party with very loud music indoors?

Husbands family is throwing a party inside (their house is very tiny) and they have a big speaker and play super loud music.

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I'd use ear defenders or just not go.

I took my daughter to a disco birthday party that my 7 year old went to. She slept through the whole thing. Are you able to go and leave early if it gets too much?

Absolutely not.

Solid pass

If it’s loud enough for me to need ear plugs then no. Can you ask them to lower the music so you can attend with the baby?

Is this your in laws or his relatives? Maybe take the baby for 1 hour with headphones just to show face or take him to the backyard where there is no music?

A couple of weeks ago some friends were hanging out at night , although it was at home I said no Because it was my baby’s bedtime . Yes I had FOMO but I’m her mom and it’s my job to put her to sleep , her dad went instead. She doesn’t sleep for anyone but me at night anyways .

So up to you if you’re okay with missing the party.

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Had light bleeding last night so went to a&e as I’m only 14+5 so that’s where we have to go till 18 weed and they did nothing but a pregnancy test, I feel so upset and let down, no idea if baby is ok or not and now I just have to wait to be contacted for a scan anyone else had this? What did you do? It’s my second child but I was lucky the first time and never experienced this 😭