DH doesn’t help cooking/cleaning/laundry. I’ve tried asking for more support at home, it hasn’t worked. At this point he’s just a paycheck and he can mail it. I’m so over this relationship.
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Would getting a cleaner once a week help? If so, try and do that

I recommend looking into Abby Eckel and Paige Connell’s content on social media.
They both address this issue with different approaches. One is ways to have conversations around sharing the load to help your husband understand, and practical examples/solutions (Paige), and the other is essentially giving up on your husband (but with the inability to leave) and centering yourself for your own happiness and peace of mind (Abby).