I feel so tired of everyday having to talk about the pregnancy itself, the baby, the pain, the planning, the prepping, the baby shower, complaints, things I need, all of it is si draining. I feel like I need a day to just feel like myself and not talk about anything bay related… then I feel so guilty for wanting that and unappreciative. I can tell people around me kinda get tired of the topics too. I feel like i’m just a burden…
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If you feel like your loved ones are tired of you “dumping” your emotional issues on them, find a therapist to talk to. That’s truly who we should be venting to. And, if you need a day to just feel like you and avoid anything baby related, make it happen. I have plenty of days in life where I focus on everything else in life, and there’s nothing to feel guilty about because other things (including yourself) need your attention.

Unappreciative? Just because we’re pregnant or even mums already doesn’t mean we have to think/talk of baby every minute of every day. I still have childless friends I go out with and we eat drink chat laugh about other things- men life work hobbies makeup fashion etc. go dancing even, it’s healthy… take half a day or a full night off and be yourself for a night. You are not being unappreciative if you just turn your mind off for a night. Maybe if you did it more often and only talked baby when necessary you wouldn’t feel like a burden. Honestly my 3rd baby I hardly ever talked about being pregnant by then it was just meh and another baby 😂
I need more friends to talk to!! Anyone wanna be texting buddies? Maybe even become close friends???
27 with a 3 yr old and a 1 month old (:

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I will be 30 weeks at the time of flying with a single pregnancy
The flight is only an hour on the plane and only away for 2 nights
How can I get a fit to fly letter? My midwife has refused to sign it
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So I’m 31 weeks today and I genuinely have not done a single workout since. You know, all the pelvic floor workouts they talk about. I’ve been so tired and lazy but I think it’s time to get serious. What are some workouts you are doing and please add YouTube links if you use YouTube. Thanks
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Anyone had a terrible time and broke up with partner and got back together and now better than ever?
First time mum to be and just feel hopeless for the future with my partner and future children i had dreamed of...
Has anyone managed to get back on track and happy again?
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I’m starting to feel like communicating on this app absolutely sucks. It’s like everybody’s all “ looking for mom friends “ and then the radio silence. I’m like txt me let’s hang out and nothing.

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Im stuck outside and so bored, im on my 5th joint and wanna talk to someone 🤣😅 anyone want to call or video chat?

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