Child development

I’m a bit concerned about my nephew. He is like 27 months now lol his 2nd birthday was in January.
He runs around like crazy, eloping a lot and won’t sit still like hardly ever. Maybe at home in his safe place but i really don’t think he chills much. He won’t make eye contact with anyone he will wiggle till he’s put down. He just won’t look.
I personally have an autistic son and I know the spectrum is so wide and no 2 children are alike, but I’m concerned about him. For sure adhd, but I really don’t want to bring it up to my brother because he will probably be offended.
My nephew isn’t talking either he more hand leads or brings what he wants.
What can I do without stepping on toes? I don’t want to step out of my lane or cause any issues?
I’m posting in this group because I feel like other autism moms can relate with the adhd aspect of things.

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Notning will fucking shut her up!!!

2 nights in a row my daughter isn't even crying it's just noise and it's constant! NOTHING fucking works anymore! I had 2 hours sleep last night and at the moment ive had around 3 hours I feel like I'm in the newborn trenches all over again and I honestly just want to kill my self because I can't be fucking arsed for this shit anymore!

My son was a dream from 2 months old. My daughter is just a completely different child! I can't I just can't do it.

It's fine for her Dad to fuck off downstairs to the couch while I'm just in bed trying to do anything I can to settle her which nothing works!! I don't wanna put her in bed with me because I don't want to get her into the habit of co sleeping, a bottle used to settle her and now it doesn't. Shushing doesn't work, patting her doesn't work.

She's 19 months

I want to die!!!!!!!

Should I reach out to my mom?

I'm a 30yo ftm with a 6 month old little boy. I'm loving motherhood it's by far the best thing I've done in life.

That being said there is this one piece I keep coming back to that just stings. My own mother is hardly talking to me. She lives 10min uo the road and has only met him about 3 or 4 times all because I initiated contact.

I have cptsd and childhood trauma from my mother. Now I have gone to therapy I don't really hold anger towards her for it anymore I believe at this point my trauma is mine to heal I don't need her to solve it for me. Without going into detail she suffers from severe depression and put a lot of it on me growing up. So understandably have a hot and cold relationship.

We were in a good spot until about 3/4 of the way through my pregnancy where she totally flipped the script and started arguing with me about super old stuff that in my opinion just didn't need dug up (especially while like 7months pregnant) anyway this continued postpartum and it just sings extra ya know. Like she waited until I was again at a vulnerable point in life to cause arguments and take advantage of my vulnerability.

I'm just sad, I miss the way she is when she's acting normal, but I've tried to reach out and every time it's an argument.

What should I do?

Postpartum rage

I need help. My daughter is almost 2 months and I'm currently I'm doing everything by myself cause my bf can't be in the shelter with me. The staff doesn't help at all. I am diagnosed with bipolar and multiple personality disorder. I'm currently struggling to keep my cool with my daughter. But it's hard. I honestly don't know what to. I love my daughter with all my heart but I'm scared of myself cause I don't have my bf here to help me with our daughter. I'm currently sitting in the corner crying

Plz help

hair loss in pregnancy

I'm currently 19 weeks and have had a ton of hair loss. i know people experience this after but never during? Doctors say it's hormones and will grow back? Can anyone advise if this is potentially normal

MIL breastfeeding comments

My son is 18 months old and still breastfeeds. My MIL doesn't speak very much English but every time I bf, she will laugh and make comments about him being "too big" and tell him he needs to stop 🙄
I plan to stop breastfeeding by the time he is 2 but even if he was 3 or something, I really don't think its any of her business.

Advice? 5yo

My 5yo has been asleep since half 5, has missed dinner and hasn't had her teeth brushed. I tried to wake her up at 6 for dinner but she went straight back to sleep as in didn't wake up properly just slightly opened her eyes, and the same again at 7 and half 7. I moved her to her bed around half 8.

For context, today was first day back at school, and we got back from holiday late on Saturday. She didn't get as much sleep as usual on holiday. She's well in herself, no temperature, she was quite temperamental and upset when she got back from school but I think it was from being so tired.

Should I try to wake her again? Or call it a night? It's almost midnight and she'll be up by half 7 for school.