I am struggling very badly with depression, I feel so guilty for being sad and passing those emotions to my baby. But I’m drowning and don’t see a way out.
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With all the hormones and emotions it takes a toll on more than just the physical. Try to stay in the moment and take it little by little. Even if all you were able to do is eat and shower take it as a win. No matter how little each step is a win.

Are you in the first trimester and also feeling sick? Just sharing for reference: I have a history of depression and anxiety and currently feeling sick with pregnancy symptoms and low low moods. I’m considering low dose antidepressants if it doesn’t normalize by 2nd trimester which my doctors would approve. Hang in there!

I also have a history or depression and prior to getting pregnant I was on antidepressants for 2 years, I weaned off in December knowing we were trying for baby #2. My OB told me at my 9 week appointment that if I felt depressed again we could talk about treatment. A few days later I felt like I couldn’t take it anymore and asked to talk about safe medication. I’m now 13 weeks and feeling so much better already! I was afraid to go back to any medication but it is safe and I just feel so much better and present again for daughter and husband. All of this to say, talk with your healthcare provider, there are better options than feeling depressed the whole time.
Hey ladies. Planning to bottle feed my bubba. Do hospitals have sterilising equipment or should I pack multiple bottles already sterilised? Thank you 🩵

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Anyone else anticipating the clocks changing for babies sleep? My LO is 4 months and she usually goes down anytime between 9-10pm so i am hoping it changes to 8-9pm now so i get abit of an evening back. Although she will probably wake slightly earlier. Anyone been through this allready?

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What time does your LO wake up for the day? And how many naps are they taking?
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Why the fuck is my 6month old deciding to wakeup 3hours after put the bed, clearly tired, wanting to sleep but not sleeping???? Doing raspberries, fidgeting, pinching etc
He has had enough naps, this isnt a nap, this is bedtime. He has already gone through sleep regression and this isnt it
I’ll rock him to sleep and he will put his head down but kicking his legs around or making sounds of all sorts. What is this????? What the fuck am i supposed to do?
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My sweet 16 month old calls me mom affectionally and it’s the sweetest thing. His voice is so cute and I feel dumb answering “yes that’s me” “yep I’m your mom” lol help! It’s his favorite word and says it like 3x every other word (if that even makes sense, I don’t know how to write that). If I don’t respond then we lose a lot of our “conversations” but my lameness causes me to overthink it. Obv he doesn’t care, I just spiral lol. Maybe easy phrases, or a song about moms? I do other fun responses when I have enough focus (like taking the attention bid: tossing him in the air, hugs kisses, bringing him into what I’m doing. Also saying everyone’s names around us too etc) but my problem is go to words to say that aren’t the first two lol. For when I’m busy or focused on other stuff etc. TIA 🙏🏼

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My little one has not been 100% for about 2 weeks she’s had one and off temperature one day she’s fine the next she’s got a mild temp but she’s been so snotty and chesty for about 2 weeks.
Today she’s been extra clingy she still plays with her toys but then she’s like had enough and wants to just be held she’s also still eating and drinking fine. This morning she had a temp of 38 something then she perked up after Calpol and was ok then tonight she had a bath and then she was crying in the bath so I got her out and she was really shivering so got her dressed and cuddles temp was 39.2 gave Calpol at 6:45 rang 111 they told me to go to pharmacy (complete waste of time) when I got back her temp was 39.6 left her a bit to sleep then check was 39.1 then at 10:45 temp was 39.3 gave her nurofen this time she’s been asleep this whole time but keeps moving and waking up crying then going back to sleep. Her breathings fine not super fast not sucking it’s just her temp. If it doesn’t go down but she sleeps shall I just leave her?
I don’t want to go to sleep myself
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