Was having a 2nd baby an easy decision

I am really undecided if I want a 2nd baby, partner says he is happy either way and it is my choice. First has not long turned 2 and was IVF, we have more eggs in storage so wouldn't be the full treatment again, the bill is due to be paid next month and I really can't decide. I have pros and cons both having a second or being 1 and done but its tearing me up thinking about it.

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This may sound silly but how do people manage with more than 1 child?

I wanted a whole bunch like 3/4 and we have one who is 2/ almost 3 years old. He has only just started to sleep better. I am 35, partner 40 and we had fertility treatment to have him. I don't know if I can face doing it again and I feel so much older now. I'm enjoying watching him grow up but part of me feels bad that I didn't get my dream of more kids. Do we try again? Financially we are comfortable but our house is very small and IVF isn't cheap but we could do it.

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Am I going crazy ?

Evap line ?
Or positive ?

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Pregnant ? Help .

I took a test like 4 hours ago after having the morning after pill a couple weeks ago, my partner didn’t even finish in me either but we usually use protection so wanted to be sure because I’m no where near ready for another baby. At first there was nothing on the test completely negative and now this has come up hours later? Is it positive I’m freaking out 😵‍💫I’m also not late on my period it’s not due for another couple of weeks I just felt weird the last week.

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Are you aware of your child/ren being alienated against you during a divorce or after?

When I was going through this, I didn't know how to explain to my boys what dad was doing. They just knew he was fun and mom wasn't. When he got custody, they learned quickly.

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1st IVF cycle failed- what next?

I’ve just found out my first IVF cycle has failed, which was my NHS round. For background I have PCOS and we have a slight morphology issue.

I’m now exploring options to self fund my next round but wondered what people’s experiences were with the following:

- how long did you wait before doing a 2nd round?
- did you stay with the same clinic or move to an alternative?
- was a 2nd round more successful or did it take more than 2?

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Fertility tracker

Hey y’all, we are currently trying to conceive. It’s been five years since I had my child. Best way to start tracking fertility? What are yall using ?

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