Did I cause my emergency c section?

Hey.
My wee one is now 11 weeks old and I feel I have recovered well from my c section but I cant seem to shake this guilt that I have.
I was induced due to high blood pressure and the start of pre eclampsia. I was against an induction and would have preferred a planned c section but the Drs convinced me to go ahead with the balloon induction. As soon as it was inserted I was in a lot of pain (especially in my back) but it was to be kept in 24 hours. Once removed I was only 1cm dilated and they broke my waters. They wanted to put me on the hormone drip and I refused as I wanted to see if contractions came on without it and they did. 4 hours later, I was contracting every 3 minutes and had the epidural but the contractions continued intensifying and my baby's heart rate was dropping dramatically, which is why I was rushed away for an emergency c section. Im wondering if I'd had the hormone drip, would the outcome be different? Would I have dilated faster and been able to have a vaginal birth? I don't know if I made the right decision not having the hormone drip. Anyone else's experience similar to mine?

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No!
Do not beat yourself up about this!! x
I had the hormone drip and still ended up with an emergency c-section, I was contracting 5-6 every 10 mins (double what should have been), bubbas heart rate started to dip too and labour wasn’t progressing despite this x

Congratulations on your baby 🩷

Firstly try not to beat yourself up about it. I know it’s easy to feel like a different path would have had the perfect outcome but you’ll never know and you’ll end up winding yourself about it.

I had an emergency c-section with my first, no induction just spontaneous labour with gas and air and his heart rate dropped also & I bled 🤷🏻‍♀️ you can plan as much as you like but baby will most probably have other ideas.. x

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