Intimacy

So ladies, i can count on 1 hand how many times me and my partner have had sex since being pregnant πŸ˜‚ I'm 29 weeks I judt feel like he isn't into me anymore. I do sexual things for him but he just said he feels weird getting intimate with me.

I am a little worried as I don't want a sexless relationship. πŸ˜•

Is anyone else in the same boat

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Not gonna lie. This has been a mental battle for me. Since I got pregnant we have been in intemit but not had sex once.
I have struggled with it also and have cried many times apologising to him as I feel bad but as its my first baby I feel so weird with her kicking and then the thought of sex.
Hoping it sorts its self after birth lol

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We are the same, my partner says it feels weird for him knowing a baby is inside me. And if I'm honest, I'm not feeling sexy or like I want to be intimate in that way myself. We cuddle and hold hands and kiss and that feels right for us at the moment. I think all couples are different, just do what feels right for you x

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honestly sex has been the last thing ive been thinking about with being pregnant ive just been constantly sore and tired so my partner understands i know hes finding it harder than me but I keep telling him it won't be for long once im fully recovered from having the baby were go to go and then always end with just dont get me pregnant again lol

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I haven't been interested in sex in the slightest. I've not felt sexy and when we've attempted it I've not felt comfortable. Luckily my partner understands and we do other things to make sure he's okay. It's part of being pregnant and we all think differently. It'll be okay once the little ones are here and our bodies start becoming our own again.

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I feel exactly the same, I'm 29 weeks and neither me or my partner are interested in sex atm. I felt the same with my first baby, but my libido returned after I gave birth. So dont worry, it wont last forever!

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Honestly, last pregnancy hubby was weird about it, I was ok, this pregnancy I'm not feeling it as much but he's ok with it. Neither of us care though because we know it will come back. We aren't planning on going anywhere we got the rest of our lives and have been together since we were teens so we know it goes up and down depending on what life throws at us next.

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