Early signs of autism?

Does this look like finger posturing? Sound like vocal stims? My son is 28 months, haven't been assessed for anything yet. He understands words, doesn't say many, mostly is repeating some favorite words as like vocal stims in a way. If we reallyyy try to get him to say a word he sometimes gives in and says it eventually, but will only say it once then mostly whines if he wants something. He's prone to using words or gestures when he's regulated, but it's not often or consistent. He has a hard time taking direction.. I feel like he just wants to do things his way. Always needs some kind of stimulation. Is especially happy outdoors, needs TV on a lot of the time in the house, but can play for a while without it. Can't blame him when in the house for most of the day. As a baby he needed to be carried bounced/walked around constantly, so that's why we ended up needing to resort to TV at home at an early age just to get a break. He has become much happier/regulated as he's grown and gained more freedom and ability to be active and roam/explore. Just wondering if his mannerisms are similar to anyone's child here. I'm debating getting assessed for early intervention but I don't know if it's necessary for us if he's happy and we're happy to work with him in his way. Not planning to send him to childcare, daycare or school, planning to homeschool and not in any rush so I don't know if it's very urgent to get assessed and professional help. He's very bright and active, always tinkering, silly, and fun. He is slow to warm to people, especially doesn't love strange environments like Dr offices so that's another reason I'm hesitant to start any therapies in an office.. but I understand they are probably kid-friendly. The past week he has been much more open to learning and repeating things so we always see little improvements which is another reason we haven't started him in early intervention or anything, because we see his progress even though it doesn't follow a typical timeline. Idk I guess I don't know when to actually worry.

Oh yeah, he has mosaic Turners Syndrome so it is possible he has developmental delays. We just don't know the full extent yet.

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I’m not very happy with the nursery.

My baby is 11 months old and has just started settling-in sessions this week. Some sessions have gone okay—she even managed to nap—but others have been much worse, with her crying for up to an hour.

The last session (4 hours) is what made me feel most uncomfortable about the nursery.

1. The staff seem extremely strict, and the way they speak to parents can feel quite harsh.
2. My baby drinks pumped breast milk. The staff said I could bring breast milk but didn’t clearly explain in what form. Apparently, they only accept it in pouches and not in bottles. When I brought it in a bottle, they spoke to me harshly and said they “don’t know what I’ve put in it,” which felt unfair—it’s the same milk whether it’s in a bottle or pouch. It came across as if they were accusing me of tampering with it.
3. If I forget something or do something wrong (like the milk issue), they overreact and speak in a very telling, almost mean way.
4. They don’t provide regular updates on the family app, so I have to contact them myself to find out how my child is doing. Sometimes they do and sometimes they’re don’t. The communication is not clear and they simply tell me off that it’s written in the policy, I mean they can remind me. The woke with parents on the daily basis and I was expecting them to be more understanding.
5. During the last session, I brought breast milk in a bottle and was told off. I even offered to go home and bring it in a pouch, but they said no. Four hours later, they asked me to pick her up because she couldn’t sleep—and they hadn’t given her any milk because it was in a bottle. They also said she didn’t want to eat the food provided (pizza and oat milk). When I got home, she was clearly starving and drank two bottles of milk. I’m upset that they didn’t offer alternatives like toast or fruit or ask me what she might eat.
6. The staff wear strong perfume, and my child comes home smelling of it, which bothers me.
7. The nursery is nut-free because one staff member has an allergy. I try my best to avoid nuts, but if I accidentally include something, they say they will call me to pick my child up because they cannot care for her. I find this difficult as I am working and paying for childcare?
Is this a regular thing with nurseries? Would it be unreasonable to ask them not to wear perfume when carrying for my child as she has eczema and it’s unpleasant to have her face smelling of perfume? Anyone else had problems like this?

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I gave birth yesterday and had a second degree tear pretty much in a straight line downwards but not too close to my butt hole.
The midwife however had to put her finger up my butt twice when stitching me back together. It was traumatising on top of literally giving birth minutes beforehand 😭 Has anyone else had this happen?? She only explained the second time that she was checking she hadn't stitch into my anus which is OK but I'd rather have been told beforehand, also I don't understand why she'd need to check when she had just explained to me (and the student midwife) that the tear didn't go to the anus. Is this a normal check that they do?

I had a 2nd degree tear with my first baby but I'd had an epidural and was completely out of my face on other medications, mixed with just a terrible birth experience I didn't even take in when the doctor sewed me up, but they never mentioned abing yo put their fingers up there 😬

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