Everytime my boyfriend calls me from jail … look I know he loves and adores me, I love him as well but can’t but be a bitch when reminded he might not happen to be at the baby shower . (My first pregnancy but his second child) he already got to experience his first sons birth, baby shower, doctor appointments etc with his first baby mama and I’m hormonal so I’m definetly mean but I’m good sometimes and then get reminded I’m going to have to also have the baby shower (I’m not financially stable to even use my own money for one) and yet him not being here for it makes me be mean to him I know he hates when I’m mean to him about it and yes he didn’t choose to be locked up but I CANT HELP but be angry. I lowkey have resentment towards this. I feel like … the moment he ever cheats on me or tries me I will leave with no hesitation just because I’m doing my best with this pregnancy on my own. Yes he does send money here and there just enough for groceries and the phone but cmon we have nothing set for the baby except some clothes.
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I feel you. The timing of him being locked up is bad. That sucks!! Im sorry 😞

I definitely understand. Mine is more than likely going to miss his child’s birth, his first child, and even though we’re not together.. I hate him for it. I really hope he’s sitting in jail hating himself too.