Being pressured on having a second child

Baby girl is only 7 weeks and my MIL is pressuring me to have a second. I’m content with one. We never thought we could have children so it’s amazing to have baby here now. I’m an only child and I turned out okay. There also plays the fact of time and finances. We have dogs and an apartment.

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That’s your and your partners decision don’t let her pressure you she won’t be the one going through it emotionally financially and physically xxx

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She should mind her own business no disrespect

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