Nutramigen Puramino

My little one is now on nutramigen puramino formula and seems to be taking it fine, which were surprised about as heard that babies dont always like the taste. However, he seems to be struggling to get it out the teat. Were using tommee tippee anti colic bottles with number 3 teat. Has anyone else had this issue? And what bottles do you use for this?

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Sex after birth

Sooo I’m just looking for some first hand experiences
I had a second degree episiotomy and the idea of sex scares me soo much ! How long did you wait till you had sex again? Did it hurt BAD? Basically I want all the details 😭

Wrong or no?

We are first time parents, living in a two bedroom with another couple so our privacy is VERY limited. Is it wrong to be intimate in the bedroom while the 10 month old sleeps? Or is it horrendously disturbing?

Being pressured on having a second child

Baby girl is only 7 weeks and my MIL is pressuring me to have a second. I’m content with one. We never thought we could have children so it’s amazing to have baby here now. I’m an only child and I turned out okay. There also plays the fact of time and finances. We have dogs and an apartment.

When did your kids start calling you “mom” instead of “mama” or “mommy”?

My kid isn’t even 4 and sometimes calls me mom. :( I correct her most the time because she is an actual baby, and she seems so big saying mom

Unsure if I want to BF - Am I selfish?

My second is nearly 4 weeks old and currently EBF. Whilst we are still very much both learning, generally breastfeeding is ‘working’. Ie he’s gaining weight and I’m not generally sore. However I’m really struggling with the amount of time we’re stuck on the sofa 🥲 and finding it increasingly difficult to latch in the night etc. So there are some issues.

I have a toddler who was formula fed after we couldn’t establish breastfeeding fully after being on a triple feeding plan. It killed me last time to throw in the towel after 3 weeks, but we then quickly adapted to formula feeding and it worked really well for our predictable schedule loving family. I feel I have the opportunity this time to BF my second son, but selfishly I’m not sure I want to 😭 other than it being really convenient to not wash/prep bottles, as well as having the ultimate soothing device, I’m not keen on the whole experience and it’s really affecting the time I have with my toddler. I’m also all for nurturing my newborn and that he won’t be this little forever, but that doesn’t make the solo sleepless nights any easier in the moment. And practically, I need to sleep at some point as driving feels unsafe at points!

Anyone else struggled with this? I fear that if I carry on, we’ll soon end up establishing BFing fully and he’ll refuse a bottle and I’ll be stuck. But also really proud we’ve made it work and feel ridiculous throwing away this opportunity when last time it was all I wanted. I’ve also started expressing s little bit with view of my husband being able to offer a bottle for one feed a day eventually. But it takes me A LOT to pump a bottles worth, so there is no time saving, which is my main issue. After one week of expressing several times a day I have enough stashed for 2-3 feeds 🙃

I am so conflicted and ultimately I know it’s my decision. Just wondering if I’m alone in this or if anyone has any experience with this conundrum. Thank you

Nervous about breastfeeding in public or in front of extended family / friends

I've just given birth to our 2nd baby, who is breastfed. Our 1st was formula fed so this is my first time navigating breastfeeding in front of other people.

She's only a few days old so the only other people we've seen are our parents. However it's playing on my mind about how many visitors we'll have in the coming weeks and also when we start going out again to cafes, shops etc

I think I'm just still new to it and not totally confident yet, as well as being a shy person anyways, I just don't know how I'll do it.
How do you navigate breastfeeding? Is it worth investing in all the clothes etc that have the zippers to discreetly get your breast out? Do you go into a different room? Baby can feed for a long time atm so I wonder if people feel awkward leaving visitors etc for long periods of time?