Rant needed

Ugh can i just rant for a second about sex… or the lack of🫠

Me and my partner used to have a healthy sex life together before I got pregnant, during pregnancy I was very poorly so it wasn’t a regular thing and then the bump got in the way and suddenly it had been 3 months and I was in labor BUT since having her we only waited 5 weeks after as when I say the horn came back BOY did it come back as soon as I gave birth🤣 I’ve definitely got a higher sex drive than my baby daddy but I just want to feel wanted u know? Yesterday we had a child free evening, couple of drinks down the rugby and yes we were both tired (what parents aren’t with a 4 month old???) butttt he sent me to bed at 8pm and I got nothing🙃 we still kiss and cuddle but I just kind of feel like roommates half the time and routine-like, please tell me I’m not alone in feeling like this…

I think it all comes down to the fact that I have initiated the sex in our relationship for a long time due to having a higher drive and I did speak to him pre pregnancy about this but ladies PLEASE give me some advice / reassurance that I’m not going crazy thinking he doesn’t want me anymore and the kissing and hugs aren’t just routine🙏🏼

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Sex

My husband and I have been together for 7 yrs and we have a 3 y/o and 6 y/o. Our sex life has always been very up and down. Not helped by the fact that early in our relationship I caught him masturbating to pictures of people we knew. I believe he has a very unhealthy relationship with sex.

However I also have a low sex drive since having our children. He argues our spark is gone and that I don’t put any effort in to get it back. I’m trying my best but I’m so tired all the time between working and looking after the children.

If we go a couple of weeks without he then will start to have a shitty attitude towards me, won’t want to hug me or want me near him.

He’ll ask earlier in the day if I think we’ll have sex that night and if I then don’t stick to it then it becomes a problem. I admit I probably don’t always try as hard as I could but I also think he has very unrealistic expectations.

I just don’t know what to do😭

Has anyone had this Moses basket from Amazon?

I’m struggling to find a decent Moses basket for a good price. My baby girl is due in July and I don’t know which one to get. I’ve seen Moses baskets for slightly cheaper on other sites, but I have a £70 voucher to use on Amazon, so I thought it would be good to buy it from there.
Let me know if you’ve had this one before 😊

Wedding ring

I think I want rose gold but I don’t know if it’ll discolour really fast. I’m going to be an old bride so I won’t get as much wear out of it as a 20 something bride 😬

Pregnancy announcement

I was just wondering if any other august baby mums have not decided to announce on social media, I’m stuck between posting something and not, I enjoy the bubble of just me, my partner & close family knowing but then also don’t want to hide my pregnancy but don’t feel the need to share to everyone on social media as it feels more for celebrities or influencers to make a big post about having baby xx

Im thinking of leaving my babies dad but my mum says Im throwing a tantrum

I wanted to leave.
We argue all the time, but after he called me a peasant because he earns double then I do, Iv had it in my head I want to leave.
A bit of back ground. My son is 18months old and we all moved in our first home, and first time living together when he was 4 month old. We have been together 8 years but since the new born bubble popped and we got back to normality we have do nothing but argue. We share the house work but I do more of the parenting because he works 12 hour shifts days and nights but he does help on the weekend unless he is watching football and drink.
He tells me all the time he has nothing for himself and he lives a miserable life but I have nothing for myself my life consist of my son and working full time.
I spoke to my mum after we had a massive argument and I walked out the family home with my son but she just told me I was being silly and having a tantrums and sent me back to my home.
Now I’m doubting myself and struggling with the fact I will be breaking my family up just because I’m not happy!
Do you ladies have any advise for me ?