Looking for a best friend who just gets it…

Recently separated, early 30s mom of 2 toddlers. No drama there - we just function better as coparents to our kids. Hoping to meet a friend that might be in a similar position or can offer advice about divorce and coparenting and all the things that come with it…

But also I’m not against married or non-divorced mommas ☺️ I just want someone to be able to chat to about life. Someone I can text when I need them. We can share are joys and woes. Currently my mom is my best friend which is amazing but it can’t last forever 😢 I just need someone who gets it..

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Hello 👋 I would love to be friends . Im not in the same boat as you but would like some .mum friends

I’m not in the same boat but love to talk. So message me anytime. I’m Jahida by the way

I was you 7 years ago. Your welcome to message me.

You can message me love

Message me anytime, also looking for mom friends kids are 9 and 10 two girls

I have personal experience with divorce. I have experience with contentious coparenting with my SD's mom. I am pregnant with my first and the sole bread winner in my family. Very interested in receiving advice about working and parenting toddlers as well as happy to share what I have learned.

Hey! I was in a similar situation a few years ago. I have since remarried, but have a great on-going coparenting relationship with my ex that started out really messy in the beginning 😅 so I can definitely relate to the emotional roller-coaster that can come along with everything.

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