What to do

So let start me and my husband sex life was good when first met then went down yes cuz of me he got locked up so that made me feel some type a way but then was getting better we made agreement once’s get own place we kick that back up so that mean I need step it yes I haven’t at all but he getting all mad and stuff and idk what to do main reason haven’t it just by time I get baby boy asleep I’ll tired too and yes he does a lot don’t get me wrong it’s just this time around with breastfeeding I’m really feeling the effect with being tired but he always just want say I’m not doing my part in the sexual department idk what to do

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If you don’t want sex. You tell him no. He doesn’t get sex just cuz you are in a relationship. He’s not entitled to your body. He has a hand. He can take care of himself.

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If he doesn't listen to your no or pressures you after you say no, honey that is rape. He needs to stop.

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