What would you do?

My lo is 16 months old. We are going on a short family trip to a zoo that is a 1.5 hr drive there. The rest of the family plans to be there all day, 9am-4pm then go out to dinner nearby. My LO still only nurses to sleep during the day and has rarely slept outside of the home. I want to join my family for the day but don't know if I want to deal with the potential overtired meltdowns that will be guaranteed even if lo does magically sleep in a stroller. But feel like staying for 2 hours for that much driving wouldn't be worth it. Should I risk it and hope for the best or leave early for a comfortable nap and evening for me & lo?

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Car seat question

I am 32 weeks pregnant and prepping hospital bags, I have written on my list don't forget the carseat! Which has made me think about the fact the carseat I have is just a buckle in one, not an isofix. It's got me wondering, how will the hospital go about it and is it something they'll be bothered by?
I do not drive nor does my partner so we didn't see the point of buying an isofix fancy car seat but I'm not sure how the hospital deals with them. It's fully safety tested and it's an i-size, R129 certified carseat and came as part of a travel system.
I suppose my question is will the hospital have a problem sending me home with my baby in that carseat?
Very random and probably a very stupid question but I'm now sat here over thinking this 😂😅
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Best pouches UK

I need to buy some pouches for my 10 month old to take away on holiday. Which are the best ones in the UK please?

Can’t put baby down

Anyone else having this too? I can’t put baby down for two mins without him screaming, feels like I can’t do anything. Literally shower or go to the toilet I bring the bouncer in so he’s next to me and he still screams until I hold him 😔
My first child wasn’t like this, hope it’s just a phase but it’s been going on for the past three weeks going abir stir crazy

Missed a interview for a job

So I had a car accident last month and was told I have a concussion
So I tend to forget many things now
My interview was at 10 am and I say it under my calendar as 1 pm
So do I explain I have a concussion and want to reschedule this interview?
Anything in the comments will help

Routines

Does anyone else NOT have a night time (or even day time) routine, and just pure winging it?

My baby is 14 weeks and we absolutely have no routine, but he has no feeds after his 11.30pm feed until around 8am, which sound lush, but he struggles with wind still so he’s up (and I am) 80% of the night with wind issues. However, I don’t even know where to start with a night time routine, as he doesn’t sleep well through the day, so when he’s asleep in the evening, I don’t want to disrupt him to start a night routine when he’s likely to be woken up annoyed, as he is always in a state of over tired ness

Any advice? Should I implement something or let the poor boy SLEEP😅

Would it be a deal breaker for you ..

If you had a “partner” that never sleeps early, and got the kids to school late more days than not. They are always late because he’s incapable of waking on time. Would you leave the relationship?