I need me a new husband bffr

I have this bump on my labia majora towards the end of the vagina. told my husband it hurts to wipe,sit and move and i need him to look. He said no and to leave it alone as there isn’t anything he can do. I told him it hurts and I have a feeling its infected. He finally looks and just said its just a red bump and to clean it with alcohol if i wanted to. I said ok and i cant clean it with alcohol even if i wanted to because im 38 weeks pregnant and cant see my vagina. Tell me why a few hours later (now) I go pee and I try to gently wipe so avoid irritating it and saw blood on the toilet paper. I stand up and a wipe the bump and saw blood and pus.. I was right. It wasnt just a red bump; it was an infected red bump. I stood and tried to get the rest of the pus out until all i saw was blood and tried to get the bleeding to slow down.. While I got my leg up on the sink he is telling me to leave it alone. I tell him I cant. it was infected and its now bleeding and he just goes back to sleep. Im in bed uncomfortable because that “so called bump” is irritated and im paranoid to fart or poo or pee because i dont want to make it worse.

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Girl go to the doctor. Also yes you need a new husband he is not supportive in a very important way.

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