Thinking about placing 2yr old up for adoption

I just want to start by saying I have nothing, I’ve been struggling to care for my child since I was pregnant at 16, I don’t have friends, only 1 family member left which is starting to help me less and less and her father is missing.

I’ve been homeless for years now, I’m at a dead end. I can’t afford childcare and I have job offers I can’t take because I have nowhere for her to go.

I’m crying typing this and really at a loss right now I’ve tried everything and everything has failed me.

I don’t feel it’s fair to the baby to be subjected to this level of poverty and stress, she’s falling behind on major milestones and I know it’s my fault because I’m so caught up in trying to survive that I barely have time to play with her.

I don’t want to get rid of her forever but I wish I had some help… any advice is appreciated

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Which was harder?

I’m due my second baby towards the end of the year.. I found the first time around soo hard for many reasons and still don’t find it much easier now and he’s 18 months old. Sometimes I think I’m crazy for having another so soon when I still struggle a lot.

If you have 2 children, did you find it harder going from 0-1 child or 1-2 children and why?

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Could I be pregnant?

I missed my period in March, I do have the implant for birth control, but I took a pregnancy test and it was negative but I went back and looked at it and it changed to positive, I have all the same symptoms I had when I was pregnant with my first

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Thinking about placing 2yr old up for adoption

I just want to start by saying I have nothing, I’ve been struggling to care for my child since I was pregnant at 16, I don’t have friends, only 1 family member left which is starting to help me less and less and her father is missing.

I’ve been homeless for years now, I’m at a dead end. I can’t afford childcare and I have job offers I can’t take because I have nowhere for her to go.

I’m crying typing this and really at a loss right now I’ve tried everything and everything has failed me.

I don’t feel it’s fair to the baby to be subjected to this level of poverty and stress, she’s falling behind on major milestones and I know it’s my fault because I’m so caught up in trying to survive that I barely have time to play with her.

I don’t want to get rid of her forever but I wish I had some help… any advice is appreciated

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Rhesus negative - what counts as a potential incident?

Hello, I’m rhesus negative and due my anti D in June. My midwife hasn’t really given me much information on it; and in what circumstances I should be concerned.

But I just today got knocked down by a golden retriever dog, not violently, they were just exceedingly excited and came bounding down the hill at me, and barelled into my legs so I fell down. But should this be something I go in for anti-d early? Should I be looking out for anything specific.

I don’t really understand what the potential risk is, or what the anti D does. My only understanding is it’s to stop my blood attacking the babies, but why then do they only give you the anti-d at 28weeks if that’s the case.

Surely our blood is always mixing?!

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Near positive LH 12dpo!

What is going on currently 12dpo this is LH test! Tracking my cycles due to seeing consultant next week for multiple miscarriages (I’ve already ovulated this cycle) that’s why I’m confused I’m due on Saturday! Anyone else had this?

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positive A.F.P test :(

Y'all im a little scared my unity test all came bck negative but the A.F.P one came bck positive or elevated levels :( igo tomorrow but now i cant stop thinking noone has found anything in my ultrasounds so im confused what can this mean for me did anyone else have this happen and then you ended up being fine ?

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Thinking about placing 2yr old up for adoption

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