Snack ideas?

Can anyone give me any snack ideas that is not fruit? 🫣 my baby needs to start having a couple of snacks a day now but she already has fruit with her meals, so I wanted to avoid it for snacks - I know it’s natural sugars but still, feels like a lot of sugar in one day

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Please don’t judge me 😢

I’ve got a two year old girl who is my world, and I’m pregnant with baby #2 who I found out recently is a boy. I feel so, so terrible and guilty writing this but I want to get it off my chest. I’ve only ever grown up around women - I have a sister, a daughter, and I’m close to my mum. My husband isn’t that close to his sister and he’s close to his mum but not like I am. I really wanted to give my daughter a sister, to have the same bond hopefully I’ve got. I guess I just look at my husbands family and I worry that he will distance himself one day 😩 I know it’s so silly to think, but because I’ve never really grown up around boys (including cousins) I feel completely out of touch with being a “boy mom”. That being said, I’m so so grateful for the gift of having another baby join our family, a little boy who I’ll raise into a great young man. I guess I’m just looking to hear from people who might’ve felt the same or , who are close to their brothers 💛

Am I not pulling my weight as a mom?

I have a 3 month (14 week) old first baby. She’s had a very rough start due to her health, so we’re still struggling to get out of contact naps and tbf just contact everything and only just at a phase where she’s not screaming in pain all day and night to the point she won’t eat or sleep enough. She’s finally gaining weight and some days she’s starting to be just like any other baby. I’m mostly adding this for extra context, and should probably also say I have MS/epilepsy (for me it means I do struggle with fatigue and chronic pain so Im probably not as energetic as most.)

Lately my husband keeps making these comments about how he only had time to game for an hour last night, or how I just get to ‘be at home all day’ and then he takes the baby in the evening. Just little things about how he’s the one who has to work and then he ‘has her a lot’. He works 8-4. I do the nights because of this, which is about 3-4 wakes, then have the baby in the day. I can’t drive but we do try and go for walks, other than that I’m at home or her appointments. At 4:15 he comes in, I make him his coffee and his dinner. He showers, on Wednesdays goes to football until around 6pm, other nights sits with me and then about 6 goes upstairs and on his computer. He has a business from home too so he does some work for that or plays games (these don’t count to him as he says they’re boring games since he can’t hold her and play games like Smite online with friends.) I make him coffees and check in, often to make bottles because if he sees me he’ll say “have you got her a bottle ready” so it’s not like I do nothing or just ignore them, and then spend the time on the housework. Every night I was and sterilise all the bottles, tidy, do the dishes and laundry etc, shower and then take the baby back around 9:30-10 depending what’s needed doing. If he asks me to take her earlier so he can game I do. He talks to his friends on discord, games and does his business stuff then comes to bed. I try and help with the business stuff but there’s not much I can do and my days are taken up with a very unsettled baby who desperately wants to be on me. Some days I don’t eat until dinner. I try so hard to protect his time to game and go to football and get his haircut on the weekends and whatever else and I thank him for working so hard for us and tell him how appreciated he is but he doesn’t seem to think I’m doing enough and says all he does is work. I just don’t know what to do. I feel like I’m failing as a mom and partner. Please be brutally honest, right now when he mentions another child I feel scared. I’m worried I’m too selfish and destroying my relationship

I need your opinion on if this is weird or what?

My husband acts like he gave birth to our child. Our child just turned one and he will act like a single dad even when I'm there holding him and struggling to make a bottle or do other things when holding our son. If any chores like food shopping or cleaning needs to be done then he would rather stay home with our son and I do it. I'm starting to feel resentful because I want to actually be a mum that gets to chill and not do everything but he is a great dad. He's just lazy when it comes to chores. What do I do ladies?

Partners on holiday

What would other mums reaction be to their partner/father of their child going on holiday when their baby 7 weeks old? I know I will be completely fine, capable of looking after our baby whilst he is gone and she will be happy as ever with me anyways but I can’t help but to think he is selfish for even thinking about it and not just waiting until the new year.

Needy 3 year old

My lo is so needy, every minute of everyday and I’m starting to lose the plot. She can’t/wont play independently if I’m around, which means I spend 12/14 hours a day playing with her. It doesn’t matter what she’s playing; pretend play/arts and crafts etc I have to play. If I go to sit down she whines, if I go in another room she cries and I’m so over it. The only way I can get 5 minutes is to put her in front of a screen, which of course make me feel like a shit mum. She’s not like this with her dad, she’ll happily play independently when it’s just him and her. Everyday is just starting to feel so long and I count down the hours till bedtime 😮‍💨 shouldn’t she be able to play a little on her own without a screen? I can’t keep this up, my brain is so overstimulated everyday I can feel myself getting more and more agitated

Single Mom New Home Heartbreak

I cannot express how hard I tried, how badly everything keeps going and how heartbroken I feel. I separated from my sons father due to the toxic nature of the relationship and wanting my son away from it.

I killed myself to come up with funds to buy my first ever home and now on top of everything else that has gone wrong they found asbestos in the popcorn ceiling. I’m genuinely feeling defeated. I don’t have child support because it entails a legal battle and I had to choose between that or getting my child and myself a home instead of living out of a single bedroom indefinitely. I don’t feel safe about my home now. Any advice?