Are You the First Message Type?

Are you usually the one who kicks off conversations on here, or do you wait for people to message you first? I’ve noticed I’m the one starting things like… 8 out of 10 times. Curious how it’s been for you too!

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I used to message first but half don't answer so I stopped

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If I match then I message if they do then I don’t because I’d think they would 😅

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Will you be my bestie boo 🥰

Can we be besties and do this thing called life together with our kids too. Im 22 from the uk, I have a beautiful daughter 6months. I want a genuine friend/friendship someone I can ft when I want to spark it and chat a whole damn lot too, laugh too, cry too so I don’t feel like a loner, go for outings, events to the clurbbb together, go to your kids party you come to mine vice versa. The type of friendship that our kids become besties as well ❤️

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Trying to run a business with a newborn and a toddler 😮‍💨

It’s like they wait until you’re on the phone to make noise 😩

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Group chats

Has anyone got an groupchat I could join where no one judges you

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Baby dad kicked me out

Me and BD haven’t been able to see eye to eye since the baby was born. We got into really bad a few times and I left last Friday just so we can both get some space for each other. I went back to my house and stayed for the weekend. I ended up getting hospitalized and he had to watch the baby, all our stuff is between my house and his house. my mom lives at my house with my brother and step dad. I let them have the whole house because I moved in with the baby dad after the baby was born. Idk wtf she told him and now he won’t let us come back to live with him. I can’t live at my house because I can’t take care of any of them including my which (which is why I left in the first placex they are all disabled) now he’s says I can’t come back to live at his place and I’m just distraught cause I have no where to go with the baby and I haven’t gone back to work yet. Idk wtf to do. I literally cannot stay at my house, it was only suppose to be for a few days and now I have nowhere to go. I was trying to avoid a fight between me and BD which is the reason I left to begin with. I’m literally losing it. My baby is only 3 months old. I’ve lost my milk supply due to the stress of all this happening. My baby is my world and now I don’t how I’m going to care for him. My mom cannot help me in the slightest way not even looking after the baby or buy a diaper for him. wtf am I suppose to do.

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Coparenting

Is there anyone I can talk to about dealing with high conflict coparenting? I’m really struggling to cope with having to deal with my ex weekly

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Clinginess

How do you occupy yourself when not talking to someone while in a new relationship?

I recently started talking to someone and I want to talk to them all day long. I know he’s not that type and that I need to learn to be ok with that but I’m going crazy!!

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