Clinginess

How do you occupy yourself when not talking to someone while in a new relationship?

I recently started talking to someone and I want to talk to them all day long. I know he’s not that type and that I need to learn to be ok with that but I’m going crazy!!

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Before you met him, you had a life that didn’t involve him and yet you managed to get things done. He is the exact same. He still has all the same responsibilities as before, your relationship is just extra.

Perhaps it would make you feel more ‘in the know’ if you knew his work schedule (if you don’t already) and you can think to yourself ‘I know I won’t hear from him until at least 6-8pm’. Doesn’t kill the urge to talk to him, but you’re at least aware of what’s stopping him from talking to you at that time x

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Find a series on Netflix lol x

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For my husband and I if I am missing him or want to tell him something I just shoot him a quick text. Sometimes as simple as I miss you or thinking about you. I know when he isn’t busy and can respond he will. He does the same when I’m busy.

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