Scenario: whenever you make plans with just you & a friend, you get to the location to find out she's invited someone else without letting you know prior. This happens on more than one occasion.

How would you view this?

P.s it frustrates me but of course, I can't react cuz the person who I didn't know was coming is there so I just go along with it & mention it to her when the other person is out of earshot. 🙄🙄🙄

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in our community

Circumcision 10 months old

Hey,
Today was my child's circumcision appointment, but I stepped away and said no. I didn't dare. How was I going to have the guts to do it? I was at the clinic, and I melted and started crying so badly that I couldn't. Now, have I made the right decision? I wasn't ready

What was your experiences in getting it done in older kids?

Thanks

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C-Section / More Kids?

I was told after your first time getting a c-section, all your future kids would be born that way, is it true moms? Furthermore, I thought I was going to die after that surgery and post partum , to have to go through that again even more than 2 times is scary. I wouldn’t wish this surgery on anyone! Am I alone with this thought?

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Chores

When did you guys start vacuuming etc after a c section? I'm over the 6 week mark but can't remember with my first and don't want to push myself too much. X

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NHS 12 week scan?

I’m coming up to 10 weeks and have my first booking appointment next week when I’ll be nearly 11 weeks- I’ve not heard anything about my 12 week scan? I had a private scan yesterday (photo) and the sonographer said my NHS scan should have been booked by now otherwise it will be too late to do any health screening?! Now I’m in a panic lol- has anyone else had their scan later than 12weeks as at this rate I think I’ll be having it between 13-15 weeks?

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20 weeks and baby’s weight so far

My 20 week scan ~ so far my baby is 0lb 14oz and now my delivery has changed to 38 weeks due to my c section scar being too weak apparently. I’m genuinely so nervous about it all. Is that a big weight for the baby so far ? My last were 9 pound and 10 pound babies 😢😢 sorry for the random post this early 😂

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Early scan

Hi everyone 🥰 I have a scan at the hospital on Monday where I’ll be just over 7 weeks. I gave birth to my wee boy sleeping at 23 weeks 3 years ago, as he had Trisomy 13 (Patau Syndrome), then we had a miscarriage in November last year. I’m feeling super anxious about the scan and am so worried that something will be wrong. Does anyone have any advice on how to not get into my own head about it all? 🥺 I am really trying to stay positive, and this time does feel different, but it’s so hard not to spiral!

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