Advice is it me ?!

To make a long story short when me and my husband found out I was pregnant. He no longer wanted to have intercourse
Now my son is 7 months old and we still haven’t done anything (because of him ) have confronted him about the situation and he says we just need to find time. It’s hard with two kids. which I think is an excuse.
Is it me?

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It is an excuse. If a man wants to have sex then he is going to make time to have sex. Could he be having a medical issue or low testosterone and he doesn’t want to address it?

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Sounds deeper than the sex alone. He could be totally overwhelmed by having the two kids. Men aren't great about talking about this kind of thing so perhaps you need to work on making it a safer space for him to open up about it and get to the root of the issue.

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