Is this a joke?

So my baby turns two this weekend. This past weekend we went out to get some things for the party, nothing crazy, and while we were out; out of nowhere while driving my partner of 12 years says “Is (Our first child) mine? (First) looks nothing like me. (Second) looks exactly like me to a t”. I just looked at him and said “seriously” he then says ”relax, its a joke” so I asked him what part of that was funny and to explain the humor because I don’t see any and don’t find it funny. This is the first time he’s ever said something like that so I imagine someone’s either in his ear or something else is going on. And before anyone asks, yes they’re both his. Any ideas? Suggestions?

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Bed

When did everyone upgrade to a big bed from a cot?

Baby rice

Hiya ladies
My little boy Benjamin is 9weeks old and already in 3-6 months clothes, he’s having 7oz of hungry baby milk every two hours however he does sleep 9pm to 6-6.30am (9 hours) every night
How early did you start giving your baby rice in the morning, I feel Benjamin needs just needs that little extra

Is it bad???

That I’m one and done? I feel so guilty to not give my daughter another sibling but she is a hard baby and newborn stage was so awful for me and struggled really bad with PPD.

Also not support from family members either so it just me and husband

Thoughts?

Discipline?

My son is 20 months and was jumping on the bed today and I was telling him we sit down on the bed because we don’t want to get a coco.(cut) he just kept laughing and doing it. I grabbed his hand and sat him down. How does everyone tell their child no without saying no? Because if I said no he just would say no jump and still do it. Also my bf would talk to him in a serious tone right away listens I do it and nothing and I’m the one with him 24/7 so if anyone has any advice on what to do and how I can better my methods because I don’t want him to be one of those kids that no one wants to be around 😅

Morning wake up time

My 10 month old used to wake up at 6:30am or 10 minutes before but last couple weeks it’s been 6am. His bedtime is 7pm now used to be 6:30pm. Is anyone else in the same boat? And when will he start sleeping past 6am? He has 2 naps 1 hour each, sometimes less.
Total sleep is 10-11 hours in 24 hours?

I’m really struggling in the mornings. Is anyone else in the same boat as us? Is this normal? What do I need to tweak to get him to sleep past 6am? 🥲😭

Pumping

Hi! If I’m pumping in place of feeding will my supply go down, so at night my one month old settles so much better having a bottle then going back to sleep rather than breast feeding for a hour plus and crying on the boob etc
So last night I pumped for 20 mins instead of breast feeding and gave her a bottle and it was better and a more settled night but I still feel like I want to breast feed even if it means tiredness and tears, then the second feed my hubby can give a bottle then I’ll pump

What do you guys think? She’s coming up 5 weeks and past few weeks have been stressful with latching as fussiness and I’ve cried a lot but I still want to breast feed Which I will do In the day but at night Is it ok for me to miss one and pump instead ?