My boyfriend and I will fight, if I cry or panic and I go to him because he is still what I consider my safe space at the end of the day. Even though he sucks at comforting me I still give him the benefit of the doubt because of how he grew up. When my boyfriend and I fight if he starts to cry or panic he goes straight to his mom.
He started doing this like 5 minutes ago while arguing and I told him he needs to stop going to his mom and come to me weather we are fighting or not because I am supposed to be his safe space. He kinda just ignored me so I walked away.
Am I wrong? Or is this wrong?
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I also wouldn't like it if he'd go to his mum immediately after. But I totally get wanting an outside perspective. I need a bit of time away from my partner (in a seperate room) after an argument to gather my thoughts