Is it me?

So tbh I don’t like my boyfriend anymore 🥺 and idk why but everything is starting to turn me off tbh I was so inlove when baby was first born but now everything gives me the ick and he looks so awkward when he hold the baby like he was never meant to have a child. And then some of his logic makes no sense like our baby has a cold and he got vapor rub and I told him the baby is too young we can’t use that yet and he’s gonna say “I wasn’t gonna put it on him I was just going to make him smell it incase he can’t breathe” like huhh?! If we can’t rub it on the baby skin why the hell would he think the baby could smell it so things like that turn me off I try to tell myself maybe it’s just apart of postpartum but idk I feel like I’m stuck in a relationship I don’t want to be in but at the same time I do I’m sorry if I’m confusing you guys but i honestly need some advice

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Hello I am Zara , 21yrs , from central Africa , just looking for a real best friend. Distance doesn’t matter to me at all. I’ve honestly been lonely for most of my life and never really had true friends.
I do have a twin sister, but she’s away at the university, and I’m here with my cute 3-month-old son and his loving dad. Life is beautiful in its own way, but I still feel like something is missing… a genuine friend.
I really want someone real and constant someone we can talk to every day, share everything, laugh, support each other, and just be there no matter what. 🤍

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My ex and I broke up before I found out I was pregnant. Our child is now 18m and hes only started having him 1 night a fortnight (he does see child for a few hours a few times a week)
He wants to take our child away with his family for 8 days in August. I originally said no, cos child hasnt spent that long away from me and is with.me 90% of the time.
Im starting to reconsider, but he needs to do at least 2 nights in a row but he says he cant because of work. (Can't get that many Saturdays off) ive suggested he request flexible working from.work.

Basically, im just wondering what other people's opinions are? Theres no right or wrong, I just want to see what others would say/do.
Thank you

If your partner never complimented you would it get to you? Upset/annoy you for example.

I have asked him why he doesn't compliment me on many occasions. He either ignores me, huffs and shruggs, or says he doesn't think I deserve it ... 🤨

But it is making me feel ugly and rubbish about myself now. I can't remember the last time he complimented me but he is one of those who constantly stares at other women though even though I've said I don't like it and it upset me.

But as for the original question - would it annoy you/upset you/make you feel shit if your partner never complimented you?

Is it me?

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