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If your partner never complimented you would it get to you? Upset/annoy you for example.

I have asked him why he doesn't compliment me on many occasions. He either ignores me, huffs and shruggs, or says he doesn't think I deserve it ... 🤨

But it is making me feel ugly and rubbish about myself now. I can't remember the last time he complimented me but he is one of those who constantly stares at other women though even though I've said I don't like it and it upset me.

But as for the original question - would it annoy you/upset you/make you feel shit if your partner never complimented you?

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😳 he said WHAT?!
What a dick.

He said he doesn’t think you deserve it. I have no words

I don't understand what that means though, that I don't deserve it, it's just what he says. If I ask why he just repeats I don't deserve it. I don't know if that means he thinks he is above me, I'm unattractive. I don't know

But it sounds rude though

Personally, If someone in general said that to me, I would assume they think I’m unattractive OR they have some sort of standard of effort they require for me to “deserve it”. Make up, lashes, plastic surgery, whatever their preferences may be vs how im presenting myself.

BUT I would never expect it from a partner, that’s just… mean. Would make me feel like he’s not attracted to me in general, If I’m not worthy of being complimented but random women in public are worth staring at so hard your partner is made uncomfortable.

Says you don’t deserve it ????? Excuse me. He sounds like an absolute arsehole and creep whys he staring at women

I couldn’t be with someone that doesn’t find me attractive

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