Putting baby to bed - husband

I every night put my baby to bed whether she’s kicking off or not…. Am I wrong for saying to him to be quiet after I put her to sleep and actually listen to me I am uptight about it but I’m the one that has to go and sort her out not him… I explained to him that if you get the full 8 hours sleep and not wake up with her and I’m always the one then yes you should be the quietest person ever when she’s been put to sleep….. he’s wanting his mate round to have a shower and I said I don’t want him to have one as he’ll wake up the baby and I’m the one that’s got to sort her out….
He told me I’m being too much and always do this but I value the time I have once she’s been put to down for bed…….. I’m fed up with feeling like I’m bloody crazy…. For saying be quiet and to tiptoe around… but it’s true one slight noise and she’s up!!!!!!

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Pregnancy snoring anxiety

I have started snoring and apparently it is *loud*.
I have major anxiety about keeping other mums awake on the labour ward after giving birth. I’ve tried saline spray and trying nose strips tonight but I think I’m more stressed about this than labour! Anyone else in the same boat or have any advice?
Thank you!

Struggling today

I have an 18 month old and I’m 20 weeks pregnant. I’m struggling today mentally, I tried to do a home workout because for me exercise really helps my mental health and my daughter just screamed at me until I pick her up. It’s just the realisation that my life isn’t mine anymore and it’s going to be even less of that with another child.

Everything I do is for my child and it’s so tiring 😞 I went from being fully independent and doing whatever I want to becoming a wife and mother. There are days I enjoy it but it’s rough and I feel so lonely my husband works a lot to provide for us and I don’t have close friends locally.

I just feel regretful for my life decisions I really loved my life before being a mother. both pregnancies were “mistakes” but I was married and didn’t want to terminate so I guess I just have to deal with the consequences now.

I’m sure most mums can relate in some way. I’ve just burst into tears now. I’m exhausted physically and mentally. Now I’ve just put the TV on for my child and I already feel so shit that she’s watching a lot of screen time when we are at home - I try to get out the house a lot with her but I do find it hard especially whilst pregnant

MUMS OF 3

I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old, even though I’m so freshly postpartum I do want one more. Am I going crazy? What’s it like having that extra kid? What’s a good age gap ? Maybe I’ll wait until my newborn is 4?

Big baby comments

My 3 month old son is on the 99th centile for both his height and weight (I'm 6ft and his dad is 6ft5) and we seem to get lots of comments from people about it.. (he's a bruiser/chunk/big boy ect.) I've always had trouble with body image and I don't know if I'm just being overly sensitive but I feel a pang of sadness whenever someone says a comment about his size... What are some good comebacks to say when people make these comments, without being rude or confrontational

How to stop my one year old attempting to scalp and flay me.

I’m at my wits end guys. If I’m in proximity to her she’s either ripping out my hair or scratching me. I move her away and that works for the amount of time it takes for her to crawl back to me and try again.
I’m exhausted from constantly trying to stop her. “No” isn’t working. “Stop” isn’t working. “Gentle” isn’t working. I’m getting so damn overstimulated every single day.

2AM wake up

Anyone else’s 6-month-old still waking up around 2 a.m.? Our pediatrician cleared us to give a little water instead of a full formula feeding during that wake-up since she’s now 6 months old. We tried it last night, and she would fall asleep for a minute or two, then wake right back up. The second I brought her into bed with me, she passed out immediately.

Now I’m wondering if this could be separation anxiety starting already? Has anyone else gone through this at 6 months?