trying to leave him..

Well I’ve come to the end of my relationship. He booked a hotel “for himself “ all things point to he was with his baby mom. I was home with their kid and mine while they did who knows what. I’ve dealt with physical and mental abuse from him. It’s just so hard to fully leave him. He’s not the father of my daughter so we have no ties but he’s been there since I was pregnant. I’m restarting. I have nothing to my name. I have no money, no job, and I’m running low on my babies supplies. I just need advice how to walk away fully. I know it’s for the best but I still love him which makes me feel so stupid. Also if any mommas have tips for finding yourself again and glowing up I’d appreciate it.

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Hello dear, I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this very situation! No one deserves this, and you’re not stupid my love you have a heart that loves, even the worst of them. But I know what and who saved me from the abuse I was once in and that is the Lord Jesus Christ. I know everyone is not a believer of Jesus, but I know for a fact if it wasn’t for Jesus I would be not be here today! And now I am happily married to my wonderful husband and he takes care of our baby and myself! He don’t raise his vice or hit me or even call me names! I am truly blessed, and you deserve better! You deserve better for you and your baby! You have to make the best choice for you two, even if that means walking away! I know here in Texas we have communities and places that would help you especially if you were abused and want to leave that relationship. Maybe you have it in your state or city, you should look into that.

But you got this Sara, you are beautiful, you are strong, you are smart! I love this Scripture that says, I can do all things through Christ that strengthen’s me! So I say to you Sara, you can do all things through Christ that strengthen’s you dear! You are not ugly and stupid, and you will get through this! The Lord is making away for you right now as we speak! 🥰🤍🙏🏾

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