Sex after kid

It’s been 5 months I delivered a baby and in pregnancy we never had sex. After pregnancy I thought we will be close but I don’t know he is not interested in sex it’s been 5 months and we made love only 2 times that to I am
The one who pushed for sex
Will it be like this forever…and for me sexual desires were doubled after pregnancy I don’t know what to do !!!!

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Sit him down and talk to him. While sex isn't everything it is still apart of it

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Omg! I am the complete opposite. After having my son. I did not want to be touched what so ever! I just lost all kinds of craving for sex. My husband does get upset but understanding. We try to work it out tho.
I hope you and your partner get thru this!!

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Definitely sit down & have a talk with him. Like a previous comment said sex isn’t everything but for me that’s kind of alarming. Like is he not attracted to you? Getting it from somewhere else? Have he made other sexual advances? Like flirting, touching you sensually , etc?????? That’s odd

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This happened to me. Give him the blow job of his life and get him into sexual things again

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Sex after kid

It’s been 5 months I delivered a baby and in pregnancy we never had sex. After pregnancy I thought we will be close but I don’t know he is not interested in sex it’s been 5 months and we made love only 2 times that to I am
The one who pushed for sex
Will it be like this forever…and for me sexual desires were doubled after pregnancy I don’t know what to do !!!!

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