Baby 12 month review!

Hey mamas

We had my sons 12 month review today and they said he’s on the 91st centile for height and 9th for weight

He was 50th centile at birth then 25th when he lost weight due to being sick for a few months on and off with viruses and colds etc then now he’s on the 9th. She said he’s following his curve beautifully and he’s healthy and they’re super happy

However I’m just soo upset. I have tried sooo hard to get his weight up since I was told he’s on the 25th centile months and months ago. I wish he was on the 50th centile at least.

We do three meals a day, two snacks, breast feed on demand and a bottle cows milk when he takes it. He’s okay with his meals usually has at least 1 really good meal sometimes two then a little less for the other. And he’s happy to have his snacks.

He’s extremely active from when his eyes barely open till he goes down so I was told that could be why he’s not putting on much.

She said he’s on the 91st for his height and we definitely do not want his weight to be anywhere near that

Just want to know if anyone else babies just aren’t putting on much weight I find it soo frustrating like I’m letting him down I don’t know.

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