Toilet training

I need help my little boys been toilet training for a few months he’s does use the toilet a lot but recently he’s had more accidents the going on the toilet.
Some info to take into consideration
He’s at nursery all week 7:30-6 except a tuesday and with his granny the Tuesday
He used do to half days and his grandad used to collect but he wasn’t helping the situation at all so put him in nursery the full days so I could keep an eye on him as I work there as well, he started doing better until Recently he’s just stopping in his tracks looking down and peeing
Does anyone have any tips pleaseee

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My husband works so much

He works at 4 am but has to get up at 3am he gets home at 7 and then plays on his phone in our room until he goes to bed at 8 I would be EXHAUSTED if I had his schedule I don’t know how he does it but I’ve been busting my ass too and I’m so tired 😩 I get absolutely no breaks what do I even do? I feel so guilty for saying I’m tired? Uhggg anyone have advice?

Opinions!!

I was in a mood washing the bottles.. I di them everyday and sanitize them
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My 11 months old boy is generally a calm and easygoing baby, but he is a different person when it comes to mealtime. The cranky moment starts when he is placed on the high chair where he will twist and turn (I think its the safety strap which locks him in one position). He will resist and eat, resist and eat, and mealtime can goes up to an hour. Since we think high chair is the problem, we now feed him in other room on a portable chair. The crankiness and screaming reduced significantly but he is still be very distracted and want to get out of the chair (he is strapped in here as well). Mealtime still takes almost a hour...
Fyi, I personally feed my boy and have not really gone into BLW because the gagging really gets to me....

Would love to hear from your experiences and/or any success stories :)

Should I confront him?

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He ran out of papers and left to go buy some but it was taking unusually long I called 2-3 times no answer his excuse is the phone was in crease of car (basically didn’t hear it couldn’t find it while driving back) he comes home and I see his phone get a couple texts while he walks off I look over and it’s whole convo with a girl he just went to smoke with like he literally left the house while I was putting our daughters to bed (both two under two)….. I really don’t know what to do or how confront him with out him playing victim or stressing myself days before labor

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Crying whilst weaning

My little boy is 6 months and 2 weeks so should be weaning.
I initially tried for a week when he turned 6 months and he was getting very upset so after a week i stopped as it felt like he wasn’t ready.

I’ve tried him again today and he seems to be doing a little bit better with it in his mouth but I’m still worried he’s not ready.
He cries a little bit when the food is put in his mouth and doesn’t actively take the food off the spoon, I have to sort of scrape it on his gum, he doesn’t close his mouth round the spoon at all. I then have to wait for him to eventually either gag a lot before potentially swallowing some of it or spit/dribble it out after sort of holding it in his mouth for ages all whilst mildly crying.
He’s not interested at all in finger food and to be honest isn’t really showing any interest in food at all.

What shall I do?
Do I keep trying little bits each day and eventually he’ll start to want it or do I stop again. If I do stop how will I know he’s ready when he doesn’t seem to be showing any interest at all.