I NEED MOTIVATION

I am starting my losing weight journey and I feel I am more motivated working out with someone. I recently moved to la about 2 years ago and known on one here haven’t gone out much. If anyone interested please dm me I live in silver lake. I am literally a block away from la river near la Columbia.

in our community

Is he talking to escorts (again)

So it’s 3am in the morning, I’m 34 weeks pregnant and wake up to use the toilet, I find out my husband is not in the bed with me, I stand up and notice that he is in the toilet and the door is locked( we’ve never used the lock knob so it’s pretty stiff) I ask why did you lick the door he said it was a mistake, I go back to bed, he comes back in to bed, it was a good ten minutes before I went to the toilet after noticing him not on the bed.
He comes back and I said why was the door locked he said (he mistake hit the lock) I reply that there’s no way that was a mistake you need good effort to lock that door.
Then he goes quiet, and I notice he had removed his ring in the toilet.
When I first guessed he was chatting with escorts he denies it to this day, even though I went as far as chatting one of the girls and she was nice enough to share me screenshots and he still denied it.

What do I do? How do I get more concrete proof or am I over my head?

*side note* he woke up this morning acting super nice, kissing me and the kids

How do you deal with the sadness of not having friends?

Can someone just give me some tips to deal with this please. I’ve been struggling to keep friends for so long, and usually I’m ok about it but every now and then I just feel so much sadness.

My eldest has started school this year and I managed to build a friendship with another mum (our kids are besties) but now shes distancing herself from us. I just feel like no matter what I do, this world does not want me to have friends. Everything else in my life is great but man it’d be nice to have a girl friend 😅
I give up second guessing myself all the time, I’m a nice person, I’d do anything for anyone. So it’s time to just accept it 😔

Pay

So im currently unemployed and have been signed off. I dont get help from UC and my partners wage doesnt cover all mine and his bills and house bills. Im struggling to live..

Why dont the government help people that have worked and paid taxes for years.

Anyone else in the situation or can help

Anyone want a texting buddy?

I have social anxiety and have maxed out my social circle I can handle, but I feel like I have no one to vent to or tell my feelings to. If anyone wants to also vent/talk texting only, I just can't handle phone calls or meet ups mentally rn

???

It’s so funny how you connected with people off this app but when it’s up to meeting they have so many excuses like how do anyone want to be friends but never want to meet up to do anything but don’t mind texting not even talking but texts that’s so weird to me maybe people just really want someone they can text them actually connecting to be friends.. I’m too old to just text people and not even pick up to talk on the phone

Venting

Im a SAH mum to a 7 week 5 day old boy, been fighting between doctors and health visitors both smacking me like a ping pong ball from one to the other for about two weeks just to have his tongue tie looked at and assessed before I went private, but a bit pissed off that I don’t have my own income anymore as my partner asked if I’d stop working to focus on being safe during pregnancy then focus on raising our son so now I don’t have an income or maternity pay but not worked long enough to get statory maternity pay so rely on uc child benefit and what ever I get along the way I sold my motor bike as I knew I wouldn’t be using it for such a long time and wanted the money for a little myself some to get baby things and savings, but it ALL went on baby things I was then tryna get a few low hobbie things like colouring with the maternity grant but STILL all went to baby stuff I’ve just had to pay for private tongue tie specialist that he said would go halves on as he turned out to litrally need it clipping and nothing I’ve asked if he was still wanting to go halves on the procedure and he said yeah of course but still not sent half and the saving I had left aside for my son is now basically nothing and I still not been able to get a cheap pack of colouring pens