Is he talking to escorts (again)

So it’s 3am in the morning, I’m 34 weeks pregnant and wake up to use the toilet, I find out my husband is not in the bed with me, I stand up and notice that he is in the toilet and the door is locked( we’ve never used the lock knob so it’s pretty stiff) I ask why did you lick the door he said it was a mistake, I go back to bed, he comes back in to bed, it was a good ten minutes before I went to the toilet after noticing him not on the bed.
He comes back and I said why was the door locked he said (he mistake hit the lock) I reply that there’s no way that was a mistake you need good effort to lock that door.
Then he goes quiet, and I notice he had removed his ring in the toilet.
When I first guessed he was chatting with escorts he denies it to this day, even though I went as far as chatting one of the girls and she was nice enough to share me screenshots and he still denied it.

What do I do? How do I get more concrete proof or am I over my head?

*side note* he woke up this morning acting super nice, kissing me and the kids

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if you know and you have proof then there is no reason to keep denying

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Why do you need more proof for? He’s clearly up to no good.

Are you planning to leave him?

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